zohan wrote:
If you found out your spouse was meeting truckers and giving free bjs at a truck stop would you stay with her?
If your wife took out a ton of credit cards and maxed them out, so she could buy her boyfriend clothes, food, drinks and fun weekend vacations, would you stay with her?
You know stuff like that....
Being married is very much a conditional relationship, having a child is not.
If you found out your daughter was meeting truckers and giving free bjs at a truck stop would you let her stay? If your daughter took out a ton of credit cards and maxed them out, so she could buy her boyfriend clothes, food, drinks and fun weekend vacations, would you let her stay? Or would you cut her off?
You are asking questions that 1. go against mutual unconditional love, and 2. are not exclusive to marital relationships.
The better question is, "why would your wife behave the way you describe if you have been loving her unconditionally?"
For a wife to behave the way you are describing, either 1. she is mentally unstable, or 2. you have been horribly neglecting her.