Red piller wrote:
HelpARunnerOut wrote:the messages implied they had sex or damn near close to it
HOLY CARP!! THIS IS HER OLD PHONE. IMAGINE WHATS ON HER CURRENT PHONE!!
She cheated and got away with it. Do you honestly think she won't or hasn't since???
Dump her and move on. Have some self respect.
Your assuming they understood each other as being in a monogamous relationship at the time. We don't know that. I doubt OP knows.
If OP could get her to be honest and open about it, it could be fine. But it seems to me OP has some unrealistic ideas about women, so he'd screw it up anyway.