Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Connecticut, and Vermont are among the best states in the US to live. Maine and RI admittedly have issues:
Business Insider's Ranking of state economies (http://www.businessinsider.com/state-economy-ranking-q4-2015-2016-1/#35-south-carolina-17):
Massachusetts: 6
New Hampshire: 14
Connecticut: 17
Vermont: 24
USA Today's State by State Public School Rankings:
All 4 states are in the top 10 (Massachusetts #1, Vermont #4, New Hampshire #5, Connecticut #6)
All New England States allowed gay marriage *before* the supreme court made it the law of the land in United States v. Windsor. Massachusetts was 1st, Connecticut 3rd, Vermont 4th, and New Hampshire 5th.
Americas Health Ratings puts all 4 of these states in the top 10 healthiest US states:
Vermont #2, Massachusetts #3, New Hampshire #5, Connecticut #6
http://www.foxnews.com/health/2015/12/18/10-healthiest-and-least-healthy-states-in-us.html
Violent Crime rates (larger numbers are better)
Vermont #50, New Hampshire #47, Connecticut #39, Massachusetts #18.
Housing prices are high because people want to live there, for good reason.