Sorry, youngster, but Ru Paul released his song in 1993 and Lil' Kim released her "Crush on You" album in 1997. As usual in the music business, one of her writers ripped off an idea from another artist.
Ru Paul's "A Shade Shadey":
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=59M-mFiGSPg
Lil' Kim's "Crush on You" album:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crush_on_You_
(Lil'_Kim_song)