Manny Manlet wrote:
A Woman's Perspective wrote:
Most women don't wear heels to be "sexy", they wear them to look thinner because they elongate your frame. Very few women want to "look sexy" as opposed to looking stylish, attractive and slim. "Looking sexy" is generally something only hookers or porn stars aspire to as most women simply want to get to know a guy first before having sex with him.
You will get those desperate women who respond to the "you look sexy" comments and some others who ignore them but hate them, but its honestly so easy for women to have sex with a guy and so dangerous out there in terms of possibly being raped or sexually assaulted that "looking sexy" really isn't something in any way aspirational.
And whats with all these guys who can't date women with well paying jobs and assume women are chasing after their $60-80k annual income? Do you never actually meet professional women or something?
In terms of things that put me off men, height isn't at the top. Its sleeping around and cheating that is the thing me and my friends try our hardest to avoid. Shady guys are out.
C'mon now....not all of them wear heels to look thinner & elongate their frame. Lol. I recently got "friendzoned" for being too short by a very attractive marathon runner who is 5-8 (I'm barely 5-6. Lol). She wears 3 inch heels with her short skirts and told me it's for sex appeal (who would have thought). I also dated a lot of women in my younger years before I got married way back in the 80s & 90s. (I'm widowed now). Most of these girls were very attractive & fit and dressed in heels for sex appeal particularly going out at the clubs.
This sounds like something from 40 years ago.