Should I yell on coach?

So you think that drunk you can trust the word of a drunk girl who is gossiping with her friends? "really cool guy"...sounds to me like she was trying to impress her friends, scandalous. Let's say she wasn't telling the truth. You report this guy and his reputation and career would be forever tarnished, true or not. Not to mention it would probably come back on you, at which point you would have to explain that everyone was drunk when you heard this "confession"

How do you yell on someone? Is this some sort of hood rat term I'm not familiar with?

Well it's not just gossip. She showed us a picture of them out together and think she's really into him. It was crushing to see this.

don't do it as you'll be that douche loser guy who broke them up which will give you absolutely no chance with her and any of her friends.

Don't do it. Your coach will definitely be fired, and it's not your business. She's an adult and it's consensual. Also people will hate you.

The coach should be fired. The two consenting adults argument is bogus. A situation like this is bad for the institution and detracts from the experience of the athletes and teat dynamics. This type of relationship is unbalanced at best and predatory at worst.

That being said, seeing as this girl has already let it slip to the whole team it probably won't be long before the admin finds out. Just lay low.

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But in the remote instance this is actually a real situation the obvious answer is no. Quite frankly it's none of your business and they've done nothing wrong.

A coach is in a position of both trust and authority. Most schools have policies regarding this. (Start by looking this up.) Typically, the relationship is documented. If they are not willing to follow policies, then the coach should resign / be forced to resign.

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Who says "college running team," and what's a "belated Thanksgiving celebration?"

Penn State?

This happened on my college track team with one of the field event coaches. He was an unpaid assistant. Obviously he was let go. I know she is a consenting adult but as the athletes coach he controls her scholarship, her place on the team, ect. Obviously she is a consenting adult and this is not illegal but this is a hugely unethical and he should be let go.

I guess its up to you whether you tell on him, I'm not sure if I would have told on my coach if I was in your place in college. But I would say you have every right to do so. Make sure you know for sure you're certain before you do. I don't know what was in the pictures if they left no doubt that there was a relationship. But this is going to wreck the guys career and you don't want to do that on the basis of a drunk girl and a picture taken out of context.

When I played football, the coach of another sport started to date one of his players. He transferred to another college and married the girl. He still coaches "across town" to this day.

In this case, the coach obviously had feelings genuine enough to pursue them in a righteous way.

Not sure how that helps in this situation, tho.

More to your question, screw legality. The coach is in a position of power over the runner. Totally inappropriate. Just make dang sure you know your facts before you take it to the AD. All it takes is a rumor to ruin a good man's reputation and career forever.

HA! I do not think it at all detracts from the "teat dynamics"!

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The coach should be fired. The two consenting adults argument is bogus. A situation like this is bad for the institution and detracts from the experience of the athletes and teat dynamics. This type of relationship is unbalanced at best and predatory at worst.

That being said, seeing as this girl has already let it slip to the whole team it probably won't be long before the admin finds out. Just lay low.

I would just tell on him. No reason to do it loudly.

Yes. Sit ON him and yell. That'll show him.

I think you should worry about your english teacher more than your coach.

It's not illegal, but it's certainly not ethical and the school likely has a policy against it. Normally, I'd say it's between them. She should be the one to report it.

These things are always he said/she said. If she or he does not way to say to authorities and there is not evidence other than 2nd hand, then what is the school supposed to do?

There's also the chance she's lying.

I've decided that I'm not going to say a thing about it but of course I can't say that someone else won't.

I think what makes it difficult is that I get on really well with our coach and was really into this girl. I just can't believe that she's seeing him but I guess another lesson in the school of women.

To those saying that there is no proof; the pic shows her sitting on his knee kissing him right on the lips. A classic selfie type thing. Just about killed me to see that but can't win em all.

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Did you think that is Latin for ec tecera?