MD Phan wrote:Yes, because so many kids want to quit soccer so they can put in 50 miles a week.
"Hey Zach, your coach is an idiot, you are the best one on that team, every touch should go to you. You should just quit team sports because you have so much talent as an individual. You want to go on my ten mile run this Saturday? It will be fun."
If the kid doesn't like soccer, there's always baseball. Or even running. But when the kid is talking "5:59 pace" and "leg speed" it's way overboard. They probably cut out the talk of long tempo runs and HIIT. 10 miles a week and ultimate frisbee and a soccer game or two, then a couple of 5Ks a year, fine. But this is ruining this kids childhood. 100% guaranteed he will be done by 19, if not by 13.
A lot of assumptions. Of which all, some, or none could be true.
And I'm not sure why running is so terrible for a kid, but soccer (or other sports) are somehow solving the problem.
The 'problem' is not the sport, it is the father... if he is the type of guy who pushes a child unhealthily and obsessively into a sport. When that happens, it doesn't matter if it's hockey, football, or running. It's not good.
I see a story of a kid who is going through a sports phase of no known length who has already tried soccer (probably encouraged by Dad) and then tried running (probably already did, as Dad's a runner). And he loves it. What is wrong with that? He's bonding with his father and that makes me happy to hear. Next year it might be tennis or baseball, but I sense running will always be in the background if he doesn't stick with it as the main effort. Sounds like a good, close and happy family.[/quote]
Nice clear thinking "easy weeks" unusual for this forum.
I was that kid. Excessive training for my age. chasing national records. Dad was a well known coach who was calling out 200 m splits. People assumed he was pushing me. Knew I would get burned out.
What they didn't know was that my dad was my best friend and running was one of the things that bonded us. He never pushed me but I was self driven.
..and I kept training hard all the way through college, because it was a sport I loved! Now, 45 years older than that little boy, I'm heading out for a 5 miler not to chase records but to stay healthy and to connect with the beauty of my favorite hobby.
finally, my father and I continue to share that bond as coaches with a nationally prominent high school xc team.
So..Maybe I didn't "burn out".
It all depends on what's going on behind the scenes.