This guy is my hero. Did you really just attempt to justify cheating as the moral high ground?
No Ring? wrote:
No ring, no foul.
Every relationship before marriage ends for one reason or another. Sometimes it's because a better fit comes along. If you were in a relationship and you met your soul mate what would you do? In fact if you don't make a move her true feelings for this guy won't be tested and ultimately make her relationship stronger ( if she goes that route). If she does cheat with you, it was never meant to be, and at least the boyfriend learns of her lack of commitment to him before he does something he'll regret i.e marry her. I'd say you owe it to both you, her and him to make a move. If you don't the results could be disastrous.