A successful person wrote:
You are the problem, Looking out for yourself and job, not the kids.
"Except for some circumstances, college should always be encouraged."
Seriously?!? NO! NO, It should not!
So pleased to hear you turned out successful, successful person. As they say, "it takes a whole village" and I'm very gratified to be part of the village that helped formulate you.
However, not advancing your contention about college being unnecessary will get you blown out of the water in most high school debate competitions. Successful people step up to the plate and take a full swing, big guy.
As primarily a middle school teacher, I've had students who would excel in college if they started attending college tomorrow. I've also had students in middle school who could not successfully complete their locker combination for an entire year without an adult intervening. You'll say that is my failure, of course, but only because you are clueless.
There are many instances where I can only hope certain students will be responsible adults.
There are also some very f***** up parents out there and often parents can be more messed up than their kids are.
A wealthy parent once offered $1000 to her daughter if she got straight A's because her best friend's parents came down with the same incentive. So I give that student a "B" and that student's mother flies into my classroom the next morning screaming, "You just cost my child $1000! We are DEVASTATED!" I showed the mother the grade book and explained that her daughter bombed a big test which was closely aligned with state standards. The mother replied she was going to rally together other parents against me.
Keep in mind there are many scholarship opportunities at colleges. When talking to the median 30-75 percentile of middle school kids, I believe it would be irresponsible to say "college sucks and it might not be for you". I graduated in the bottom 20% of my high school class and never would have gone anywhere but the Army after graduation had it not been for a college athletic scholarship to a school in the Big Sky Conference. I did the 100 mile weeks in high school because teachers pumped it into my head that I might be college material despite my poor grades. Yeah, they inflated my grades during my last two years in high school so I could retain my athletic eligibility.
Let's say a kid is academically ineligible to attend an after-school dance because you gave him a low grade. The parent raises hell on the phone with the principal (principals always hate those kind of angry parent phone calls over a freaking dance), you see that student dancing that night, and you realize your boss caved and overruled you. Will that teacher ever block another kid again from attending a dance? No, not unless a lot of Johnny's teachers are humping that same bandwagon.
Would my parents (born 1923 and 1930) have raised holy hell with the principal on the phone if I missed a dance? No, they would have told me I sucked and that I deserved any punishment given.
Today's parents go ballistic about teachers denying kids their due social life and how teachers are always the 800 pound monster clogging up all the fun.
After a few years of dealing with remarkably deranged helicopter parents, anyone with a brain realizes "f*** it man, it's only a silly dance". No need to throw a wet blanket on fun.
In closing, you're damn right I'm worried about job security when it comes down to fighting grade inflation. I've walked many despondent teachers in tears out to the parking lot after their contract wasn't renewed because they naively thought principles mattered. I was that way once. Principles do not pay your f****** mortgage.
No, you play the game. Johnny is doing great. Everyone is. Nothing to see here. Move along now.