SocialMediaconnection wrote:
I wouldnt tell her I liked her over the phone, we live practically down the hall from each other.
Ill just tell her at dinner after practice (Im heading there in 10 minutes), that I canceled the skype date and ask if she wants to go on a walk. And then Ill go for it.
Good Luck. We are rooting for you!
Five pages of high class trolling. Impressive!
Whenever threads like these come up my advice is always the same: give her ass a squeeze and see what happens.
Success!!This is how it went down... I am stoked
After dinner at around 6:30, we had just walked back to my dorm room to hang out before I was going to skype. We were sitting on my bed perpendicular to it, looking at the race entries for tomorrow on my computer. Then she gives me a hug and says,
Her: "So Ill see you tomorrow I guess. You have to skype with that girl right?"
Me: Oh actually I canceled that. (Shut computer)
Her: Oh really, why?
Me: It was stupid. I dont really like her. Pause, And because I would rather hang out with you. I have to be honest, I really enjoy spending time with you, and I think you are a really quality girl. I like you (name), but more than just as a friend. I wanted to see how you felt about us, and taking our relationship to the next level.
I stopped talking and just looked her in the eyes waiting. Basically, she told me she had been waiting for me to tell her that for about a month and was about to give up on me. We had a good laugh about all these misunderstandings and then, it just happened, we made out...for a while.
We are meeting back in a half hour to watch a movie before bed. But who knows how much movie watching will actually be involved ;-)
THANK YOU LETS RUN!! A thread that was actually helpful! To all the other guys stuck in the friend-zone, its worth the risk. I feel like a million bucks. and if I can sleep tonight, I think Im in for a PR tomorrow.
That was actually kind of heartwarming. Troll or not, 10/10. Well done.
I actually think this guy is for real. Im not sure who else would go into those awkward details..
But anyway,
Congrats bro, way to switch ladders. And good thing you listened to us. She was about to give up on you! Let this be a message for the other guys, not to wait. Ask now!
Dang!! I wish this would happen to me.
I'm glad it's working out for you. :)
Not a very credible end. In fact kinda stupid and Disney-like. Still a decent troll all in all, but I have to lower the score to 8/10.
calling a trowel a trowel wrote:
You are in an assumed relationship with her already. You both have assumed the role of social partners with out verbalizing it. Ask any of your friends if they think you two are dating and the answer will be " Of course why wouldn't I"
The spade guy nailed the denouement early.
i love a 'happily ever after' story line.... but,
this isn't one of them
the boy had no grit
the girl had no redemption
the story fell flat
Well she broke up with me, I am bummed.
I could care less at this point if you dont believe my story. I got the girl.
And no grit?
I straight up told her in person!!
Im glad my skimpy clothes outfit worked for my man social media connection.
Too bad Ill probably die in south america because Im culturally ignorant.
Congratulation! Please tell me you didn't actually use the phrases " quality girl " and "next level".
Glad it is working out. Keep us updated on how things go.
Girl going to south america wrote:
Too bad Ill probably die in south america because Im culturally ignorant.
Practical advice:
don't touch the pretty blue frogs
Howler monkeys get up really early and they really howl.
Uhh I did use those phrases. Whats wrong with them?
SocialMediaconnection wrote:
Uhh I did use those phrases. Whats wrong with them?
He's right they are trite.
SocialMediaconnection wrote:
Success!!This is how it went down... I am stoked
After dinner at around 6:30, we had just walked back to my dorm room to hang out before I was going to skype. We were sitting on my bed perpendicular to it, looking at the race entries for tomorrow on my computer. Then she gives me a hug and says,
Her: "So Ill see you tomorrow I guess. You have to skype with that girl right?"
Me: Oh actually I canceled that. (Shut computer)
Her: Oh really, why?
Me: It was stupid. I dont really like her. Pause, And because I would rather hang out with you. I have to be honest, I really enjoy spending time with you, and I think you are a really quality girl. I like you (name), but more than just as a friend. I wanted to see how you felt about us, and taking our relationship to the next level.
I stopped talking and just looked her in the eyes waiting. Basically, she told me she had been waiting for me to tell her that for about a month and was about to give up on me. We had a good laugh about all these misunderstandings and then, it just happened, we made out...for a while.
We are meeting back in a half hour to watch a movie before bed. But who knows how much movie watching will actually be involved ;-)
THANK YOU LETS RUN!! A thread that was actually helpful! To all the other guys stuck in the friend-zone, its worth the risk. I feel like a million bucks. and if I can sleep tonight, I think Im in for a PR tomorrow.
I'm so happy for you, Jamin. You finally kissed a girl! Congratulations!
Yeah that's all great stuff... But did you PR?