opinionated guy wrote:
College coaches who have responded, thanks for doing so.
The first said that first impressions are vital, yet he/she doesn't always get around to responding to potential recruits.
The second says that life gets in the way of recruiting, and listed numerous excuses, most of which are part of the job. You have done all this "in a post on a website". You have obviously prioritized "life".
It takes no more than 30-60 seconds to respond to an e-mail inquiry or follow up on a completed questionnaire. Do your job and do not leave a 16-17 year old kid hanging. If you can't handle that, move aside and let someone who can take over.
I cannot AMEN this comment enough! As the dad/coach of a rising SR HS girl, I've just been blown away by the sheer laziness of the coaches we've contacted - even the ones who initially express an interest in recruiting my kid. This thread makes me feel a lot better, as I had begun to worry about being blown off by so many coaches.
Here's the really weird thing. I'll email a coach & basically ask how fast my kid should run to be considered for a scholarship. I'll also include her academic achievements.
What normally happens is I'll get a very encouraging initial reply - even coaches specifically giving me a $$ range of what they'd offer, telling me they're very interested, etc.
So then I'll thank the coach for the encouraging reply & I'll eventually email them about taking a summer/unofficial visit to meet the coach, tour the campus, etc.
That's when I either get totally blown off or I get these 1 sentence replies. It's like these guys are tired from the effort of sending me a 2 paragraph initial response & just have nothing left. It's bizarre to have a coach tell you how he'd love to sign your kid & he's certain his program is a great match, but then totally drop the ball when you try to take the next step.
Another thing I see is even D2/NAIA just never offering a reply. Not even a form response that basically says 'Thanks for your interest. We'll get back with you'.
Oh, & the best is the coaches who tell me my kid needs to run 18:30 to be considered for a scholarship at their D2 school, but then when I look up last season's results I see that maybe 1 women on their team cracked 18:30 & only a couple ran sub 19..
I've had D2 coaches with no women running sub 19 last season tell me my kid's 19:XX MIGHT be good enough to walk-on..
WTH?