Wow. Some of you people are obsessed with this. Hopefully you'll come to terms with your sexuality and stop projecting your insecurities onto other people.
Wow. Some of you people are obsessed with this. Hopefully you'll come to terms with your sexuality and stop projecting your insecurities onto other people.
really?????? wrote:
Mr. Right could be passing her way
Mr. Right is another unattainable ideal
really?????? wrote:
For those ripping on Redux, everyone is entitled to their opinion and feelings. I think if he met the right woman he would change his mind, but maybe not.
Doubtful, but people are entitled to their romantic notions.
not shallow but wrote:
We get along really well, laugh together, enjoy each other's company, but I'm finding my eyes wandering a lot. It's as if I see as nothing more than a friend...
I think this is how women feel most of the time with most guys. Just do what women do to us: treat her like crap until she's completely disgusted with herself and gets some self esteem.
Wow, didn't expect to have this many posts by now. To clarify a few things and elaborate on others, when I said I'm a decent looking guy, I mean that I am not male model material but nowhere near George Costanza. I've been told I'm the kind of guy who can get any girl he wants, though I think that's going overboard. I'm better at talking to and "seducing" girls than I am good looking. Regardless, this girl is easily the least attractive girl I've been with. We've only been seeing each other for a few weeks and she's already "in love" with me. It's freaking me out some. I think it's mainly because she doesn't get a lot of attention from guys, especially guys like me, and despite what some of you might think, I am a pretty nice guy who does care about people. I wouldn't break up with someone just because they weren't super hot. I'm having problems with this "relationship" because, yeah, she's not super hot, but also because we're pretty different people who just so happen to get along well. Beyond that, she's the type of girl who is looking for a husband in every guy she dates, whereas I have zero plans of getting married any time soon. I enjoy seeing different girls (not all at the same time), getting more experience, etc. I don't think I should be ridiculed for that. This girl and I are just after different things.
Any other questions?
not shallow but wrote:
Any other questions?
Nope- I'm ready to render my opinion.
Do it Gangnam style!!!!
If you are after different things, make that clear. Look, one of the best things you can have is honesty. At least if you are honest about what you want, she can't hold it against you later on. If you want different things and don't discuss it or make it clear how to make it work, neither of you will be happy.
The answer is bareback anal sex and lots of it.
Anyone that is "in love" after a few weeks of casual dating is trouble...especially if they don't have the emotional IQ to notice that you're a bit indifferent about the whole thing.
In my experience, trying to 'rationalize' your way into a relationship (e.g. talking yourself into it by saying she's nice, you like hanging out etc) is a bad idea. Don't do it.
Given your 'is this what marriage is like after 10 years?' comment makes me think you're a troll...well done
bubbadeeboo wrote:
Anyone that is "in love" after a few weeks of casual dating is trouble...especially if they don't have the emotional IQ to notice that you're a bit indifferent about the whole thing.
In my experience, trying to 'rationalize' your way into a relationship (e.g. talking yourself into it by saying she's nice, you like hanging out etc) is a bad idea. Don't do it.
Given your 'is this what marriage is like after 10 years?' comment makes me think you're a troll...well done
Good advice. About the marriage after 10+ years comment, I'm not trolling, just young and have heard a lot of people complain about how after they got married (and had kids), they and their spouse got fat, tired, unattractive, and lost libido. Sounds terrible to me. Obviously by then kids are the main focus, but personally I think I would feel very unfulfilled if I was either a) not having sex or b) had a wife who was 200lbs.
Wait until you're with a girl you're not emotionally attached to. Much worse.
Those relationships must work, because I was in a KFC in rural Wisconsin yesterday, and there were a lot of couple there, but there wasn't anybody attractive.
Those relationships must work. I was in a KFC in Wisconsin yesterday. There were a lot of couples in there, but nobody attractive.