hey guys and girls,
man, i'm in a major dilemma here. ok, here's the thing. I met this girl in another state about a year ago, and we hung out and liked each other. so we exchanged phone numbers, but i live like about 10 hours away. i've visted her a few times, and yes, we've been intimate a few times, and we decided that we were going to try and see if a long distance relationship would work out. things were going great.
however, i hadn't seen her in about the past 3 months..because of my job. i went to visit her just last weekend, and shit, this sounds really bad..but she has gained a lot of weight. like i mean, she looks fat now. i know i feel like a bad person for saying this..but at the same time..we've talked with each other and seen each other, not to mention some of the intimate things we've done..so i definitely thought of her as my girlfriend. but i don't feel sexually attracted to her right now. not at all. i faked everything this past weekend..she kept asking me if i still thought she was as hot as before..and i had to say yes. i mean, i would have ripped her heart in two.
well, two days ago, i met a pretty good looking girl at a bar, and she is a runner!! i knew her through some friends, but this was the first time we actually got to know each other well. shoot, now i want to pursue something with her. got her phone number by the way. the thing is, i'm a jack ass for trying to break it off with my girlfriend just cause she gained weight, huh?
i know i'm gonna get grief for what i'm doing, but what is the best way to break it off with her..and keep her feeling ok. i know that is pretty much impossible, right?
PLEASE HELP..i don't want her to go into depression if i break it off with her..well, maybe i'm thinking too highly of myself.
in a dilemma