I got engaged a year ago, and my fiance did ask my father's permission before proposing to me. But the funny part was that my dad was kind of losing his hearing and my fiance was really nervous so he was talking quickly and my dad had to ask him to repeat himself several times. That night my dad told me "I think he was trying to ask me something, but I never could hear what it was." But after he figured it out, I think he really appreciated that J would ask him.