Go with the cute, stable girl or the hottie?

Given the advice so far, I thought I'd chime in again.

It depends on what you want. Which girl do you enjoy being around more? Which girl demands more of your time? For me, I have little use for girls I don't enjoy being around, even if they're hot and horny. I just value my time and feel like I'm wasting it if I'm with someone I don't particularly enjoy being around, but I'm pretty independent. I could not be in a real relationship unless I REALLY liked the girl. Looks wouldn't really be that important. I'm similar in age (21), but the thought of marriage right now seems ridiculous to me, though some of my friends are married. If sex is important to you, go ahead and screw as many hot things while you can. Just one thing to consider, the longer you wait the smaller the pool of girls to pick from. I see this even while in college. In jr. high people were hopping around left and right. In high school many were forming long term relationships. In college, almost every good-looking cool girl is locked up with some guy she's been with for at least a year, usually more like 2-4, and why not? If you find a hot girl you would actually enjoy being around even if you weren't attracted to her, why not hold on to her?

I would just keep dating both for a while. You'll figure out soon which situation is right for you.

"cutie" wins by a freaking MARATHON!! "Hottie" isn't.

Squid wrote:

CIM Vet wrote:

When you're 50 and married and looking back at your exploits, you never look back fondly at all the stable chicks you dated.

Date the hotties while you can.

This is the correct answer.

This is most definitely the correct answer.

If you're not looking for a wife or someone to actually spend the rest of your days with, go for hot, sexy women who just want to bone and every once in a while receive a pearl necklace - both kinds.

If you've never had a stunning high-maintenance woman before, then go with B. You need to be with a woman like that once in your life or else you'll end up in your 40's wondering about what might have been...

After she gives you a hand job under the table at your brother's wedding, wrecks your car, and costs you your first first job, you'll happily spend the rest of your life with A, never getting a mid-life crisis..

I hear you man, and I understand your problem.

Honestly, you will never know until you take that chance. That is really all I was trying to say.

As a father myself, if you treated my daughter with respect, made her happy and provided for her, I would gladly accept you into my family. Now if you were a total ass, I might subconsciously find a reason - such as the atheism - to not like you, but any good parents are going to try to accept their child's spouse if that person makes their child happy.

...and I was serious about the Catholic thing, I do think Catholics are much more likely to be down with your atheism than any other religion. Catholics are very personal in their religion, that is what separates them from other denominations. I studied Catholics in school, and since well before Vatican II, they have been a very personally spiritual denomination, much different from the more evangelical religious groups.

Hollywood doesn't understand this, and I think it is because Catholics are the oldest and largest Christian denomination, so they take on most of the wrath. It doesn't seem to bother them though.

Interesting nonetheless.

Anyway, give it a shot man, if she makes you happy, do not end it on a "possibility" that her family "might" not accept you. Hell, you could say the same about running. Her dad may not like your running shorts. Let them get to know you.

Good luck, and hopefully you will read this so that you don't think I was just some ass flaming you on a message board.

Anyone who isnt white protestant is a burden to the advancement of the white race.

Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another. -H.L. Mencken

Danny Vinyard wrote:

Anyone who isnt white protestant is a burden to the advancement of the white race.

I would argue the exact opposite of that. Well, maybe not the exact opposite, but white protestants are pretty backwards for the most part. Have fun in West Virginia.

LOL.

Tap as much ass as you can while you can. I married a girl I've been dating for 8 years (started when we were 20). As much as I love her, I'll always regret not having been with more women. Ideally we woulda met 4-5 years later and I would have gotten shit outta my system so I wouldn't have these regrets now. Just my 2 cents.

I can't believe the thread has gone on this long. Simple solution. Get two golf balls and two 25 foot lengths of garden hose. Whichever one can suck the golf ball through the garden hose first is the one you date. If neither succeed, dump 'em both and keep looking.

Ugly tea bagging bitches are the only way to go. Gobble gobble!