I am 23 years old, recently graduated college. Have a well-paying job that I enjoy. Life is pretty good right now. I have recently begun dating two girls (not exclusive with either one yet), but I might need to make that decision soon.
Girl A: cute face, decent body, low-maintenance, wealthy family, great personality
Girl B: very hot, more high-maintenance, good personality, smart, comes from broken family but is very level-headed and has high aspiration for herself
So, looking for some advice from the older crowd, who would you go with and why? I like both girls...and am looking for a more solid relationship at this point in my life...but am not sure which girl to pursue further....any thoughts??
Go with the cute, stable girl or the hottie?
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option C: get those two girls to meet.
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Mary Ann every time dude! Ginger will love you and leave you for the Skipper.
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Wow, I was about to post an almost identical thread, but I still have two years of school left and my options are:
1) hot girl with an awesome body who I've slept with a few times and will have class with next semester (booty all semester long), but is also kind of annoying sometimes and has ~0% potential for a meaningful long-term relationship
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2) Cute girl with decent body who is smart and funny and I really enjoy talking to (and seems to really enjoy talking to me as well), but little chance of booty and who's family will probably hate me for my atheism (she's an active member of her Catholic church)
I could see myself falling for the second girl pretty hard, but I'm just not sure it'd work out with her religousness, religious family and friends, and my atheism. I just think they'll hate me and pressure her to break it off with me and it will just cause tension and conflict for her.
Come on, Old Guys. For young people, should we go for love or lust? -
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Hot is nice, but stability rules and maintenance sucks. The broken family is usually a bad sign if you came from a traditional home. Once things get heavier you'll realize her priorities are likely a lot different than yours. Plus, the cute stable chick comes from money. Easy choice. Go with A. -
I don't think you can go wrong really. Just because a girl is hot or high maintenance doesn't mean you can't have a solid relationship with her (stereotypes aside).
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find one who is hot and stable! like my gf
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It's been my experience that it's the less hot, fatter ones that do the most stuff.
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I've been in your situation. I chose girl B, it turns out she was seeing two other guys at the same time, and she was completely crazy.
I then went back to girl A and I guess I'm happy... I don't know, you really can't win. Girl b will always choose the burnout artist or musician over you, sorry, but that's life. -
When you're 50 and married and looking back at your exploits, you never look back fondly at all the stable chicks you dated.
Date the hotties while you can. -
Hot girl for sure.
High maintenance is sexy.
And no to religious partners if you're an atheist. That's not gonna work. -
CIM Vet wrote:
When you're 50 and married and looking back at your exploits, you never look back fondly at all the stable chicks you dated.
Date the hotties while you can.
Decent advice. Just remember that if you take dating the hottie too seriously, you might not make it to 50. If she's a nut, don't EVER mention anything about a ring and turn and run if she does. -
CIM Vet wrote:
When you're 50 and married and looking back at your exploits, you never look back fondly at all the stable chicks you dated.
Date the hotties while you can.
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Through my experience, the hotties/high maintenance/broken family girls are GREAT to date. But never, I mean NEVER move in with them/ask them to marry you/have a kid with them.
The low maintenance/plain Jane/stable upbringing ladies are the ones who make wives. They aren't as exciting, but when you settle down and live with someone or have kids you want stability, not drama.
My personal oppinion is that you are only 23. Date the hottie. Trust me, you don't want to be married with kids until your 30's anyway. And the "good girls" are always out there. I just picked one up one year ago. Sure she's 6 years younger than me (another good reason to wait till you're 30 to date a stable one, you can pick one up way younger than you and thus she will always be younger and hotter than the girls your age!) and that's a good thing.
We are expecting our first child in April and I couldn't be happier. I'm ready for a family and after 10 plus years with crazy chicks, I welcome the stability/no drama/love with open arms.
And damn were those ten years with psycho's fun! I'll always remember those years. If I had to do it all over again.... I'd cycle through the hotties quicker during my younger years. I held on to each one for about 9 months or so which was too long.
Party it up while you can. Eventually you'll just be that creepy old guy hitting on the girls. When that happens you'll only have your memories of the hotties. -
Date the hottie and get your heart broken, fall into the consoling arms of the stable girl.
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Marry girl A. "wealthy family". Don't be stupid.
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Ask each one separately to accompany you on a long run, riding a bike and handing you liquids as needed. The one who agrees to do it and doesn't whine is the winner.
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[quote]Squid wrote:
[quote]CIM Vet wrote:
Marry the hot one how, as long as she has a good career. Kick out a few kids; tap it for as long as you can stand, then get a divorce and trade her in for a younger model. Literally.
That's what happens mostly, so why not plan on it?
