so there's that rule that says not to call the girl until the 3rd day. what's the story on that? under which situation would it be ok to call the girl the same day of recieving her number?
if it matters, she dropped a ring at my workplace today and i found it. could i use that as an excuse to call her? and then also ask her to a bite to eat tonight?
any input from the ladies?
girls girls girls wrote:
so there's that rule that says not to call the girl until the 3rd day. what's the story on that? under which situation would it be ok to call the girl the same day of recieving her number?
if it matters, she dropped a ring at my workplace today and i found it. could i use that as an excuse to call her?
I don't know anything about this "3 day" rule, but let's assume, for the sake of argument, that it exists. If you found the girl's lost ring, it's going to seem pretty creepy when she finds out that you held onto it for three days before calling her. (I mean, what *were* you doing with that ring for three days?) If you have her phone number already, then of course you should call her immediately to tell her that you found the ring.
It seems to me that you are wildly misapplying this 3-day rule. The present circumstance definitely calls for immediate contact. If you can swing that into a dinner date, then go for it.
this isn't a tv sitcom do whatever you want.
i absolutely agree w/ trollie. something similar happened to me. had the guy called and said he had my property, i would have been open to going out. instead i had to call him after i found out through a 3rd party that he did in fact have something that belonged to me. very creepy and invasive. there is no "rule" about when you "should" call a girl. call her and tell her you found her ring. she may just suggest taking you out for a drink as a "thank you."
well, i called her tonight. good thing i did because it turns out that she called my workplace and they had already told her that I took it with me. she was thankful.
she invited me to visit her at her workplace tomorrow and she suggested that we should start running together. it turns out that we both have been running alone due to our lack of local running friends.
man, you guys are gonna get my thread deleted
girls girls girls wrote:
so there's that rule that says not to call the girl until the 3rd day. what's the story on that? under which situation would it be ok to call the girl the same day of recieving her number?
if it matters, she dropped a ring at my workplace today and i found it. could i use that as an excuse to call her? and then also ask her to a bite to eat tonight?
any input from the ladies?
Wait three days or better yet 30. Girls are always like "that guy won't call me, I really want to bang him"
Three days my ass, call the next day if you want.
Sounds to me like you been hustled. She called your workplace? She needs a running partner? Did she really 'lose' that ring or did she put it to work for her? I smell a trap!
hmm....gold digger...? You don't happen to be a lawyer, or high earning type are you?
nothing weird. I would never make out with my sister