Am I crazy to be hesitant to be with someone who makes me uneasy? It's to the point where when she's in a bad mood I get in trouble for making jokes and generally being happy. She demands that I spend all of my free time with her, and as a result I have very few friends in my new city. Another big downside is that because I spend all my free time with her, I don't even have time to jerk off!
Is there any way that I can end things without looking like the biggest jerk in the world? It's not that she's a bad person, but I'm just not sure I can make this work. It's not all about the shutoff, but that certainly doesn't help.