Armstronglivs wrote:
But I just read earlier in the thread that "brain scans" have shown male or female brains. If that is so, how can one be "gender fluid"? We apparently have either a male or female brain - whatever that means. So a person can have both a male and female brain? (Or even neither?) Which parts, I wonder? And demonstrated how?
However you pursue the semantic as distinct from the biological issues involved, "they" is generally a plural term and to choose it to describe oneself (how unfortunately singular that is) is to claim to be more than one person. Apart from the apparent confusion involved as to what kind of person and how many - a team, a crowd? - it reeks of a certain grandiosity.
I know nothing of "male brains" or "female brains." You got me there. I'm not the person who brought that up.
YOU brought up the use of "they" as a pronoun. You proposed a history for the term that was incorrect, so I felt the need to tell you that you were wrong.
People say stuff like this all the time:
"You ever go up to someone on the street and they're like, "Hey, watch it, Buddy!'"
"Someone" is a singular noun. "They" is a plural pronoun. However, it has become so commonplace in English, that we don't bat an eye at it anymore. The speaker wasn't trying to imply that the person they encountered had some kind of multiple personality disorder. They were just being lazy with the language. We've all gotten lazy with it, but that's fine. That's how language evolves.
You are wrong if you think that when someone says "refer to me as 'they'," that they want you to think of them as some kind of dual-embodied person.
I'll gladly argue semantics all day because it's over; I have the high ground.