Anybody try this eharmony thing for meeting women? I'm considering it, but I'm not sure if its worth it. I'm only 24 but meeting women is difficult. Bars can be virtually worthless for finding anyone worthwhile, and any organizations I've joined have been strike outs. So, if anyone has experience with this I would like to hear your story. Thanks.
I couldn't pass the background check
I found eharmony to be very regimented and confining. I answered hundreds of questions, and then the company told me who my potential matches were. I couldn't even look at any other profiles. Even after potential matches were selected, and both parties indicated interest, there was an elaborate set of questions and answers that I had to go through before I could communicate with anyone in any meaningful way. Perhaps it's changed since I tried it.
ON THE OTHER HAND . . .
I think that people on eharmony are generally more serious about finding a decent mate than are many of the people on other sites. That's worth something.
I tried it out for a bit..... do the 7 day free trial and then cancel your subscription before they renew it for you. After a few weeks, they'll send you an email for a special promotion....2 or 3 mths for the price of one.
The problem with eharmony is that if the other person doesn't subscribe, then you can't communicate with them unless they are smart enough to leave contact information in their profile.
It's an interesting expereince and as the other person said, these woman are more likely to be serious about finding a long lasting relationship as opposed to an overnight fling.
Check it out for a week....you have nothing to lose
check out adultfriendfinder.com you'll get lucky a hell of a lot quicker. And maybe even get some hot 3some action too.
I met my husband through matchmaker.com. (This was in January of 1999.) I think Matchmaker has different sites in terms of religious preference, location, etc.. It took a while to fill out my profile, but I had a lot of fun after that. I have been happily married for almost 5 years.
I tried a lot of online and off line dating services during my years of living single -and loving most of it-
I met my husband on match.com two years ago after meeting about 20 other guys (most were nice-but many lied about weight and athletic lifestyles) I found match.com to be the easiest to maneuver and had more choices-good luck!
As opposed to all those women out there who are definitely just into an overnight fling...(if a woman tells you she's into a one-night-stand she's full of s***).
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It's an interesting expereince and as the other person said, these woman are more likely to be serious about finding a long lasting relationship as opposed to an overnight fling.