Coaches are partly to blame. There's an idea called "learned dependency" that basically says that when too much support/instruction is given it blunts an athletes ability to navigate their way through a situation.
I made that mistake way too frequently in my early years as a coach. I had all of the details planned and wanted it to be just so. I took away too many decisions for my athletes and made it so they always needed my input to know if they were doing it "right."
One of the other coaches I worked with had a thrower that year that needed to get feedback after every throw because that's what she was used to. She was talented and clearly a superstar on her HS team so she got that attention all the time and never needed to problem solve the situation on her own.
After a few years a caught myself on it and deliberately made some parts of our training open ended. It gave them room to make mistakes, but it also helped them develop a sense of course correction when something wasn't right. There's no doubt that some athletes are better/worse at this than others, but coaches own a big share of the problem if it's a widespread thing on their team.