TheCorrectorII wrote:
baa baa wool wrote:
FWIW, everyone who says that they are "anti-nuclear family" is advertising their own poor reading comprehension.
I keep reading this criticism too and I don’t get it. My understanding is that you want your community to work as an extended family looking out for each other, which sounds like a perfectly reasonable idea.
Do people who keep bringing up “anti nuclear” family do it in the hopes that it sounds related to “anti heterosexual marriage” hoping to tally the bigots against BLM?
Nope, that’s your own projection on what you perceive to be the agenda of the right. There’s a saying that, “If you want to change the world, go home and love your family,” instead of this “it takes a village” mantra. Far too many black fathers abandon their families or have no real involvement with their children, which is a huge problem. Yes, it’s hard when both parents have to work. We had the same situation raising kids, as did most of my peers, but, even in divorced families, the fathers were still very much involved.
BLM is not promoting a culture of fathers staying and investing in their children. They are promoting the opposite. If you support BLM, then you don’t really want the plight of African Americans to be solved. It’s just another pseudo-woke, progressive, evolved self righteousness to pretend you are actually “with them,” when, in fact, you and your constituency aren’t really about solving the problem. You just want to keep reinforcing the victim and martyr status without actually investing in the community, holding them accountable, not tolerating failure, and telling them that they are NOT victims, that they can actual make a much better life for themselves. But you and your elected are really going to help them with that this time, right?