Wife does not want me to be treated by female massage therapist for sports massage

For those of you who reside in NO, no need to get pissed, I went on You Tube after my trip and discovered NO does have some nice areas - one YT vid talked about there's actually a shortage of affordable housing in NO because many people moving there - maybe they're moving there to become sports massage therapists!

Sign up for a couples massage. Legit places have these and it keeps everyone from making or accepting side offers.

It’s kinda funny you think this story is believable. Why would your wife feel threatened some by the prospect of you seeing a female masseuse? It’s not like a woman who comes in contact with handsome well built men on a daily basis would feel any attraction for a pile of skin and bones

Male massaging me- bahhhh

Solution- ugly woman masseuse

You forget the best part

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Knu1lT2DSb4

Brooo several years ago I went on a week long bike tour and had a girl give me a massage that totally went inappropriate.

On the second day of this tour i had this big old lady come ask me if i had gotten a massage. I said "nah" and then this lady started telling me how amazing the massage therapists were on this tour and told me to go to the one named Ashley. So i take the bait and go sign up for this girl.

I walk in for my appointment and this girl goes, "So my mom tells me she hooked you up with me." At this point i was like wtf this girl got her mom to come set me up! haha

She kept saying things like "we should be best friends" and was getting super handsy on my inner upper thighs to where she was literally touching my junk. She kept telling me that i should come in later for another free massage. 20 year old me was literally sweating because this was a room that had multiple massage therapists and I could tell that other people were seeing and hearing this girl hit on me while touching me.

I had a girl with me that I did this tour with, and she sat in on this massage. When i got done and stood up her eyebrows were up in surprise. This girl i was with was telling people all week about how i had made a new best friend.

I didn't get another massage all week. Ashley came up one time a day or two later, poked my side and walked right off smiling looking back.

I can see why your wife would not like you getting this massage.

notthishill wrote:

Assuming you could find a male therapist, you have the option to alleviate your wife's uneasiness while still getting your massage.

If the female therapist is the only one available, you have the option to alleviate your wife's uneasiness without getting a massage.

Or you could choose to ignore your wife's uneasiness.

In my opinion, ignoring your wife's uneasiness to get your massage from the female therapist is simply taking your muscle pain and converting it to emotional pain for your wife.

I agree.

Rational wrote:

It’s kinda funny you think this story is believable. Why would your wife feel threatened some by the prospect of you seeing a female masseuse? It’s not like a woman who comes in contact with handsome well built men on a daily basis would feel any attraction for a pile of skin and bones

LOL. I may have written this reply in fact.

Go get massaged by a man. They are stronger and will give you a better massage.

It wouldn't even cross my mind to be jealous of things like this. It's a sports massage. Is your wife controlling?

Vice President Pence started this thread two years ago? Did you get that massage, Mike? Was Mother angry with you?

Stop going to the Yoshiko Health Spa out by the turnpike and she may get less suspicious.

Your wife has trust issues. Is there a reason she doesn't trust you or is it all in her head?

Send her to counseling.

Oh, it's a well-known issue to me. It's totally normal to feel a bit off about it, so just try to be patient and understanding with her.

I love massage!