seriously, am I supposed to believe in marriage when my parents are divorced and each had a divorce after that? what kind of mental framework should I operate in? MGTOW? Traditionalism?
seriously, am I supposed to believe in marriage when my parents are divorced and each had a divorce after that? what kind of mental framework should I operate in? MGTOW? Traditionalism?
Is the question from the title of your thread or from the body of your message?
From the thread title: "How am I supposed to get married?"
Well, this is all in the way you want to. Some go the "traditional" route and have a ceremony and guests and all that. Usually this is done in a formal setting and performed by someone ordained to do so. Others go the "easy" way and go thru the justice of the peace at their local court house. Either way, whatever works for you.
From the subject of your message: "am I supposed to believe in marriage when my parents are divorced and each had a divorce after that?" You have to decide this for yourself.
Two different questions. Two different answers.
kyoto wrote:
seriously, am I supposed to believe in marriage when my parents are divorced and each had a divorce after that? what kind of mental framework should I operate in? MGTOW? Traditionalism?
Well that's easy, don't get married! You've seen the crap that goes on when you get divorced and know one comes out ok, especially the man. Just have GF's/BF's and live life as you please. Any long term live in situation you'll need professional advice on as in legal terms.
MGTOW? Um... isn't this just pretending to be gay when you are actually straight?
As for how you are supposed to get married...
Wait a while.
It does suck that neither of your parents have been able to make it last. In order for you to, I would say wait a long time. Be with someone for a few years, definitely wait until you're in your 30s.
Don't rush into anything, don't get married too young. Statistically speaking, it is the easiest indicator of divorce.
Answer is easy, OP. If you want kids, get married. If you don't want kids, don't. Everything else is a distraction.
Super Simple wrote:
Answer is easy, OP. If you want kids, get married. If you don't want kids, don't. Everything else is a distraction.
I'm not sure you have a full understanding of how kids are made.
Statistically those divorces correlate with you also having a higher divorce likelihood. So you mitigate that by embracing some of the things that lower divorce rates, such as ensuring you and your partner are older when you marry.
Also I would recommend therapy to identify what things about your folks would make you more likely to be divorced.
Learn from your parents mistakes, while applying better judgment and attention to who you marry before you say "I do."
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