help? wrote:
Hey guys, I need some help.
See, there is this cute girl in my biology class I want to ask out but I can't figure out how. We have talked and are friends and such, but I can't figure out the best way to ask her on a date. Any tips?
I don't have any friends who aren't on letsrun, specifically this thread, so I figured I'd turn to you guys!
(btw, I don't go to St. John's, St. Benedict's, or St. Catherine's)
Thanks!
Chances are you don't really like her and are just enamored by the prospect of companionship with any female. The most important quality of a romantic partner is their devotion for you - If she doesn't like you as much as you like her, than you can find someone better. You will probably have a better chance of finding the right girl for you on a place like Bumble or Tinder where you can date someone who you know has the same goals as you.
If you do feel your friendship with this girl is strong enough, the key to getting out of the friend zone is to make yourself desirable. Girls may say that they want someone who is nice or fun, but really, they want what they don't have. You don't have to be a dick to her or anything like that, but the more friendly you are with her, the more she will see you as just a friend.
Either be straight up about being interested in her with the expectation that she probably isn't with you, or wait it out while giving her reasons to demand more of your attention.