Kids are a gift.What's up with people that say no kids for me.12 of Americans get divorced I understand if you aren't married BUT NOT I DON'T WANT KIDS. I have my son 5050 custody shared arrangement.He is with me almost every other day. When I die it's like a part of me lives on.I know my 6 year old is a hell of a lot of work and money but I can't understand someone saying I don't want to mess with that and just have fun.Married people that do that make me sick.You have to leave something for this world.I am not mad FYI at people that can't have kids.