How much does it bother you when someone unfriends you on facebook?

I have too much going on to care.

Don't care, don't play Facebook drama games, neither do any of my real world friends.

One of my wife's friends unfriended me when she and my wife we're on the outs. Only found out when she tried to refriend me after the tiff was over.

I'm sure people have unfriended me, especially since I go on partisan political rants, but I've never even checked.

It's nothing to take to heart. There are all sorts of reasons to unfriend people. I actually unfriended my first girlfriend because she'd started putting up so many New Age posts that I was getting nauseous.

I actually unfriended a woman I greatly admire because she was putting up photos of her travels and other shenanigans that just showed that her life was way fuller than mine and that she was way out of my league. I didn't need he reminders.

I don't facebook, so don't know what it is like to be unfriended. I do twitter, and I don't pay attention to people unfollowing me. Who cares?

0/10

I unfriended someone on another platform. This person wrongly assumed that I no longer wanted to be their friend. The reason I did it was because I didn't like the platform and unfriended everyone.

How would I even know?

Seriously, do you get some kind of notification or something?

I wouldnt notice or care. The second scenario might cause me to wonder until an insignificant fly buzzed by and captured my attention.

Dirt free wrote:

I have too much going on to care.

I have nothing going on and still dont care. I think it takes an extremely petty person to care

Only worry if someone who is a real life friend unfriends you and remains your actual friend. Something is up then.

demoted wrote:

I'll give two scenarios for clarity of the question:

Scenario 1: Someone you never/rarely ever see in real life unfriends you for reasons unknown to you.

Scenario 2: Someone who was a real-life friend and someone you knew quite well and did things with unfriended you.

How do you feel? What do you do?

Since I'm not on there, no big loss!

I was on facebook several years ago, and I deleted my account. Hopefully no one thought I was purposely shutting them out of my life.

I crawl into a corner of the Internet DEVASTATED.

One of the best decisions I ever made was not to activate my FB account. The whole "friend/unfriend" "like" etc.. was just too light in the proverbial loafers for me. I will likely initiate an Instagram account, maybe Twitter, this winter, for professional reasons. Seems like there I can just throw sh!t out there and not have to worry about social details.

A lot. I once beat the shit out of a kid at my high school who unfriended me. He said he didn't like seeing my political rants all the time. Well he sure liked seeing me piss all over his backpack!

If you care about someone un friending you on Facebook, you seriously need to stop living in the virtual orbit and actually focus on REAL life. I don't even use that site anymore, fed up with losers trying to be fake and look cool. Their (real) life sucks, so they have to try and invent a virtual life that appears way better than reality. It's laughable.

Did FB for a number of years and I unfriended a few for over the top political or incessant/inane social posting. These folks just took over my newsfeed so I had to hide or unfriend them.

A few years after joining I got "outed" by my high school class (they found me and then it seemed almost the entire class wanted to friend me). I pretty much said yes to all, but felt weird because there were a lot that I had little or nothing in common with back then, so why have my stuff thrown out there--as if we were in high school again.

I don't know exactly what went on, but my actual best friends through high school/college were slow to get on board and when they did a few years later they ignored my friend requests. And a wife of one friend unfriended me at some point. I deactivated my account over a year ago and kind of no longer want people from my past to look me up. And that includes former good friends. Seems a little empty but time to move on I guess.

Now I have few real friends and just troll the trolls here, or at least let them know when they are being really stupid.