I'm a second year teacher. First year was very hectic but I managed and enjoyed it overall. Unfortunately, my dad died in July and my girlfriend of 4 years and I have been having a lot of problems... it's been terrible on me to the point I just feel like my soul has been sucked out of me, like my body is there but on the inside I'm numb and unable to find any speck of happiness. I'm really struggling with my teaching this year as I can't seem to find any sort of charisma or care, and I feel like it's really affecting my performance in the classroom. I think my principal has noticed, though he hasn't said anything yet. I really just feel like crawling in a hole for a while or running away... I just feel like I need a lot of alone time right now, but instead I'm around teenagers all day every day. It's rough.
How do others deal with this sort of thing?