This is a sad and accurate post. ECMO has a high complication rate, although it's a choice of ECMO or death (no one is put on ECMO unless it's life or death).
As mentioned above, there is a clotting component to the COVID19 course that we don't fully understand yet. We have identified microclots in the lungs, and some hospitals have adopted blood thinner protocols as standard treatment for ICU COVID19 patients. We've only recently noted increased clotting throughout the body. This was hard to recognize initially, because clotting is often present in severe illness for a variety of reasons. Now we have enough data from enough cases to acknowledge that the rate of clotting is higher in COVID patients than in other ICU patients. We don't know if it is attributable to the body's immune response to the disease or if it's due to the virus itself.
For many people, COVID19 is a mild to moderate illness, but don't underestimate it.