Thanks for all the suggestions.
I am definitely applying to my state flagships to see what the price ends up being. So club team may be the way to go. We are ranked as one of the states with the most expensive state schools in the U.S., so hopeful the cost comes in decent. I don't live near them either, so commuting to them is not an option. I would need to stay in the dorms. But, these may be my best options.
And, community college is definitely something I am looking into as well. At the very least, I will be attending in the summers to get some classes out of the way for a more reasonable price. I definitely want to graduate in 4 years, as I don't want to have to stretch the money longer.