So , is it something about my biology or theirs that makes trans - anybody not properly come across as what they transition to?
June will never come across as a biological female to my senses ,or to those of anyone being honest about it.
I know it's not just me either. They don't come across as what they transitioned to to anyone. Not yet anyway.
I don't know what to call them because my perception tells me MTF are not female and FTM are not male.
So , i guess that's kind of where the reluctance to play along comes from. Like we are being clowned and even groomed if you think about it. It's not in our DNA to be groomed to see these kinds of things that we really don't.
I know it comes across as crass and definitely not PC but it's the truth. HeShe or SheHe, which is I guess pretty derogatory is also seemingly honest. It's like believing in Santa Claus for the sake of the person who doesn't want to be who they were born as anymore. Even if there is a biological incentive to change ,why are the observers require to make this leap of faith that the change makes them a new sex or even gender?
I am pretty new to all this becoming a regular thing. I hope it makes people live more happily than if they had not gone through all this , so I guess it's where "non-binary" comes from. I'll try to get more informed on that because based on what i am guess it means, it sort of of fits these gender changers a lot more than Male of Female does.