My girlfriend bothers me about wanting to go out to bars or take daiquiris home. This always leads to fights, as she gets a buzz going. Last night we agreed to go to the bar first, her choice, and the movie second, my choice. Well we stayed at the bar 4 hours and when we got to the move late, she had a buzz going. Then while l went to the bathroom, she got another daiquiri from the movie concessions. Then when we get in the movie late she has to take a smoke. Finally we get back into our seats and she has to use the bathroom, where she disappears for 15 minutes. When l go to check on her, she is chatting it up with some girl in the bathroom, saying how controlling l am, but lies to me saying, the girl was talking about her boyfriend, of course that's not true. When we leave the movie she says she was just trying to enjoy herself because she is dying of ovarian cancer, but when l ask her questions and so forth, it turns out to be a obvious lie. This is really affecting me.