killermike wrote:
the golden retriever of letsrun wrote:
does anyone else have a high IQ as tested by MENSA or school and feel they have wasted it?
I have an IQ of 154 as tested by Stanford-Binet and supported by multiple standardized test equivalents (GMAT, SAT, etc.).
I don't think I've wasted it, but my life certainly hasn't fit the mold of what most people think a person with a 1-in-4,000 sort of IQ would have. I graduated from a mid-tier private college at 22 and lived like a college student who wasn't in college from 22-24. I racked up some debt in this time period, and I actually graduated owing my college about $8,000. This put a hold on my transcript and made grad school impossible. I had a 2.9 college GPA (1.7 in high school). At 25, I started taking philosophy courses at a decently respected university as a non-degree seeking student, so they didn't need my transcripts. My plan was to pay off the college debt and apply to a PhD program. I excelled in the philosophy program, and I actually ended up getting a paper published in a top tier journal and had several well-known philosophers willing to write recommendations for me. But the job market in the humanities was terrible, and largely still is, so I decided to pass on the PhD route. I still think I was "born to be" a philosopher, and I'm both quite good at it and enjoy it.
After that, I was at a loss for what to do. I actually helped manage an Abercrombie (I know) for a year or so because I was just in need of a job. I was even a shirtless greeter at a Hollister for a while (I am very good looking). Around that same time, I decided to become a doctor because it seemed like a good job. I took two years of medical school prereq courses, only to realize that I didn't actually want to be a doctor. I did very well on the MCAT, but I didn't even apply. I was 29 or so when I made this decision.
So, here I was on the cusp of my thirties, and I really hadn't done anything to put me in a great spot in life. I was happy, though. I was married, philosophy had changed much of my internal though life for the better, and I had a whopping 222 undergrad hours. I had a couple odd jobs for the next couple years, including being a tutor/director for a test prep company and an aspiring house flipper who only did a couple projects. That takes me to about age 31, and I'm 34 now.
If my story ended here, it would just be depressing. I have an IQ of 154, everyone who has ever known me has probably held the belief that I could absolutely do anything I wanted to, and yet I had probably never made more than $35,000 in a given year. Three years ago, I decided to actually try at something that I wanted to do. I started a tutoring business. I worked pretty normal hours rather than just sh*tting the day away. I built a website, filed for an LLC, wrote curriculum (It was an SAT/ACT prep business). At first, I did the tutoring. Then I hired a tutor. Then another. I now have twenty tutors and am in nine cities. I'm also in the process of expanding internationally. The work is interesting to me, and it honestly doesn't seem hard. I really do wonder why more people don't start businesses. There is a very, very good chance that I will sell my business for more than $10 million within the next ten years.
So, that's a long story, I know. But I think it illustrates a couple things that are surprising to a lot of people regarding high-IQ folks:
1. People with high IQs are often interested in a lot of things. Probably too many things. The world rewards specialization, and it's tough to gain specialized skills when you want to try everything out.
2. People with high IQs are often risk takers. This means they can succeed wildly or fail miserably. I once had a business school professor tell me that he thought I was smarter than he was, and he could see me either being the most successful person to ever come out of our business school....or he could see me being homeless. And he wasn't sure which was more likely.