Older people plz respond wrote:
That struck me. You might have just answered one of my oldest questions I have in the back of my mind. Why don't I feel satisfied in my past long term relationships. They're all great women, and have great looks and personalities, but after 2 or so years, I start feeling less passionate and more laziness, like I stop valuing the relationship. I'm just too young to fully comprehend deciding to settle. Maybe I do have to cut it off for my own sake.
I mean maybe you discover that she's the one after you break with here, that could happen and there's a chance you could get her back and it would be a different relationship because you would have matured.
But it really sounds like there's no chance it's heading that way as is.
If this is a recent feeling then give it time, maybe the staleness is temporary, but if it's been months then I'd take a chance on chasing happiness while i was young enough to recover from my mistakes.
It's like the stock market, you are being too risk averse for being so young. You have what 5-10 prime years left to find the one you really love and spend the rest of your life with.....why spend those years with one you are pretty sure isn't?
If you were 50 I'd say pay it safe, you have a pretty good thing. You aren't though. Take a risk, get hurt, live, learn, grow up and you'll be ready when the right one comes along.