Thanks for the replies, especially from those with experience dealing with similar situations.
I said “my child” because my wife is my child’s step-mom.
My wife saw another doctor yesterday who has adjusted the meds. He said she will feel better in 1-2 weeks.
My daughter and I left the house. She refuses to go back. I don’t blame her. She’s been called a bicth, whore, freak and accused of having sex with me. She’s 16. Almost straight A’s. She has never said a disrespectful word to my wife. She goes to school, works, and stays in her room.
My ex wife (mother of my daughter) has never been much of a mother. I have custody of our daughter. Her mom works midnights, and she won’t let her stay there. Any excuse she can find to keep from being a mom will suffice.
Any way, my daughter won’t go back. She fears for her safety. There’s a deep anger/jealously issue with my wife, and medicine isn’t going to change that. She’s also what I call mentally abusive. I’ll leace to get away from her when she’s violent. She will try to face time me with a gun pointed at her head. Saying if I don’t agree to come home, I’m going to watch her blow her head off. She’s done the same thing with threatening to bang herself. Among other things.
My wife is begging us to come back. She says she’s going to get better. My daughter refuses and said she’s calling CPS if she has to,and will go to foster care before she goes back. I can’t blame her.
Like another poster said about his gf, my wife is really great when she’s not having an episode. We get along so well, we have had married couples tell us we have given them hope that their marriage can be good.
Anywah, I’m in the middle. My daughter refuses to retuen to that environment. I guess the best solution is to just stay away for a while and see how my wife adjusts.
This isn’t trolling. My goodness I wish it were. The fact that some of you think I am trolling, is more evidence of how bad things really am, and I probably should just quit trying. But, love runs deep when it’s real, and I hate to see her suffer