Why is this even a question?
This is why the rich stay rich, and is the reason why they have blood money. Money is the family's blood line for them. It's blood that flows through everyone.
If there is money to help, and to allow your kids to be greater or live better than you, then help. That is the goal, and should be the goal. The future should be better than the past, and your kids should do the same thing in the future with their kids.
That is what separates wealthy families from regular families. Regular families view it in the sense of: I raised you for 18 years, now go off on your own, which leads to individual disparity and pressure, and the separation of family and wealth.
Most wealthy families protect their own, regardless of how crazy or insane their offsprings are. This is why they get away with murder, legal issues, etc. The goal is to keep the family together and to have HEIRS. If the offspings are not taken care of, there will be no HEIRS to keep the MONEY and WEALTH in the family.
That is how you should view it. You don't need approval or some type of viewpoint to do what is in your power to do, regardless of what the so called status quo is.
I find it odd, and quite strange when parents talk about their kids in a negative light, or put them down in front of other people . The mighty wealthy will not do that. They will talk highly of their most irresponsible child, and protect him or her at all cost.
THE MONEY MUST STAY WITHIN THE FAMILY.....