Girl led me on then friend zoned me

The only thing to do now is move on and bitterly attack any outspoken women anonymously with posts on LRC.

Man up wrote:

Dude. Tell her you have feelings and you want to date exclusively. If she says no than move on. No such thing as a friend zone. It's just desperate guys hanging on. You'll be better off dating other women & in the end if she does have feelings will make her plead for you back.

This.

Tell her you're interested (if you are.) Don't be desperate, just be open and honest. If she doesn't feel the same way, that's it, move on. Even if you want to be friends down the line, I recommend waiting a few months.

Again: Don't be desperate. She's allowed to change her mind, just as you are. And if she's just using you for attention/validation, again: MOVE ON.

love burd wrote:

Just be up front and say that you want a relationship with her. If she says she doesn't want one, move on to the next man, it won't be worth your time to stick around. If she says yes, then you'll know what to do.

Good luck brutha

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I been doing this with women lately. Acting all interested, even buying them dinner and giving them sensual massages but then I'm all OUTTA THERE! Haha.

Uhhhhhh wrote:

Exactly like the title says. She says she doesn’t want our relationship to change at all, and she wants to be like this forever. But at the same time she shows all the signs of being into me (and all her friends thought she was into me). Do I have any hope?

woof

Truth is, others are right, she is using you for the attention. This doesn't make her a bad person, just female.

BUT... This is useful to you. The most attractive accessory a man has to a woman (other than success) is another woman. So if you want to chill with her, just make sure you go out to places where YOU can meet someone else. Some may say this is an a-hole move, but not if you still include her in the conversation. Seriously, though. Flirt with and ask out other women when she's there. You'll either meet someone new, or she'll come around.

And whatever you do... do NOT tell her how you feel. Be a gentleman and chivalrous. Make her laugh. Treat her like a princess (but don't spend a dime on her). Do all that, and DO. NOT. CARE. is she likes you back.

Buy her a puppy, but not just any puppy. Buy her a super cute high energy small breed puppy. It will def lift you out of that friend zone.

The friend zone isn’t a bad place to be. heck, I’d love to get into the friend zone because I’m perpetually stuck in the ACQUAINTANCE zone!

Telling someone you have a crush on them actually can work toward your benefit, psychologically. Keeping you as a friend is better than outright rejection. This means she’s not DISinterested in you. You having told her this will likely make her think about you, and she may subconsciously start to like you in that way. This is iffy and depends on the girl, but it can happen.

Never accept a friendzoning

Is that you, Evert Silva?

Once you're friend zoned by the girl that's it. It indicates she doesn't see you as a compatible relationship partner, for whatever reason(s) that may be. Girls don't change their minds on these things either, so no use wasting your time over something you can't control.

It's just a matter of learning limits like anything else. Boundaries. Sometimes you have to experience too much of something before you know to say, "ok that's enough I'm outta here" and then really, for real, you're outta there. How many times do you have to experience the same situation that leaves you feeling like a f*cking idiot before you say "ok I've had enough feeling like a fool." I'm out. Peace. If you're still at a stage where you think next time might be better then you're not there yet. You have to get to the point where you realize that every time you hang out with her, you're going to leave feeling totally disappointed. That feeling needs to become repulsive to you. If it isn't then you're not there yet.

I think what most people are ignoring is that it is better to have company and a girl nearby than no girls at all. This guy has it correctly. Just back off and show you have more priorities and back off a little. Contact her a little less and give her a chance to meet her. Don't cut her out of your life completely

I think the point you're missing is that she is not his friend. He's just a free dinner/drinks and time filler. She'll never be honest with him ( she got girlfriends for that), she'll never help him with anything tangible other than worthless advices like the one you're offering. He's better off spending the time cultivating friends that are honest and push him to do better for himself financially and personally.

Every guy has been led on then friend-zoned, before. Move on and never look back. It's a waste of time to chase women who aren't that into you.

Why would you want to be with someone that A isn't in to you, or B is giving you mixed signals. Hate to say it but your best bet is setting boundaries and no contact if needed.

What do you do when your wife friend zones you?

Uhhhhhh wrote:

Exactly like the title says. She says she doesn’t want our relationship to change at all, and she wants to be like this forever. But at the same time she shows all the signs of being into me (and all her friends thought she was into me). Do I have any hope?

Hey dude, it's ok if a girl just wants to be friends with you. That's allowed. This friend zone stuff is bs b/c it assumes you're owed something. She says she's not into you like that. Time to move on & respect that.