next wrote:
Any woman who continues to engage with such a dipsh1t has some serious issues to sort out. You don't want anything to do with a woman who'd have anything to do with you.
next wrote:
Any woman who continues to engage with such a dipsh1t has some serious issues to sort out. You don't want anything to do with a woman who'd have anything to do with you.
*just
Ask her out on a date or stop using her.
Chase PR's, not girls.
Well???
ANy Hope wrote:
So I met this chick and really hit it off. The second time I see her, we're at a party and probably talking for an hour and a half. Eventually, I go in to make out with her and she says she just got out of a relationship and doesn't want to do anything. 2 hours later, I see her again, we talk for a while, and then she ends up in my room. There, we make out, but she says a similar thing. Turns out I know the ex-boyfriend, though not well, I'm actually on club track with him.
After keeping in touch, I invite her to a party again. Same thing happens, she goes to my room and then says the same thing, after making out for a very short time and then talking for like 30 minutes in bed.
Since she kept texting me over break, I naturally wanted to try the same thing again. However, I got very drunk and was way too aggressive, to the point where she reportedly told someone to get me away from her. We had kissed at one point in the night, though it didn't really seem like she was kissing back much. Obviously, I feel really really bad about it, and was way out of line. I was so drunk I thought she was playing hard to get, which wasn't the case.
Oddly though, she continues to text me. I saw her at a later party, but am too ashamed of myself to attempt anything again. We talked a little, had a good conversation, and then I went to flirt with other girls. I actually dig this chick, but I really don't think I have any move to make except feigning disinterest/getting with other hot chicks on the off-chance it makes her jealous. Anyone have any tips?
College girls are wired man. They don't want to come across as a whole but do a bunch of half lesbo stuff and dress in bakinis for insta. She's into you, just gotta put in the work. You need another girl flirting with you to really get her going so flirting with other girls was a smart move. Now go out on a date and play it cool. You like her but have other options kinda cool.
wow got a lot of bites 9.5/10 troll
Find yourself a counselor, you need one.
Whether or not this is true or not to this guy this stuff happens all the time man. This happened to me, my friends, everyone.
To OP, you say she "continues to text you." The most important question is "are you initiating the texts and she's replying or is she texting you on her own initiative?" If it's the first, then she doesn't like you, she's just one more girl who can't let a text go unresponded to, because god forbid she hurt anyone's feelings. There are a LOT of girls and some guys like this and if that's what's happening, she's not into you, so forget it. If it's the second and she's initiating the texts, then you have a shot. She's thinking of you and staying in touch. And like the other poster said, if you're serious about her, take her to dinner and a movie, go on a walk, do something other than just go to a party and get plastered with her. If you're not serious about her and just want to get laid, wait til 2:00AM, hit up a girl with a cute face who's a little overweight, and you'll get what you want. Slightly heavy girls rule, they will do all kinds of shit and be grateful to you afterwards.
prefan wrote:
To OP, you say she "continues to text you." The most important question is "are you initiating the texts and she's replying or is she texting you on her own initiative?" If it's the first, then she doesn't like you, she's just one more girl who can't let a text go unresponded to, because god forbid she hurt anyone's feelings. There are a LOT of girls and some guys like this and if that's what's happening, she's not into you, so forget it. If it's the second and she's initiating the texts, then you have a shot. She's thinking of you and staying in touch. And like the other poster said, if you're serious about her, take her to dinner and a movie, go on a walk, do something other than just go to a party and get plastered with her. If you're not serious about her and just want to get laid, wait til 2:00AM, hit up a girl with a cute face who's a little overweight, and you'll get what you want. Slightly heavy girls rule, they will do all kinds of shit and be grateful to you afterwards.
Dead on.
She's leading you on because like someone else said she likes the attention. She is still banging her ex and wants to feel wanted because he's banging her and other chicks. But you aren't good looking enough to bang so she makes out with you, bitches, then goes to her friends the next day GOD I've got to stop making out with that geeky kid when I get drunk
Okay so here is some advice from another college kid.
In my experience being direct and forward with girls about your intentions is the best way to go. It makes you look confident, and it is better for you in the long run because it will break off unfulfilling relationships before they start.
First of all, figure out what type of relationship you want to have with this girl. Your post reads like you are interested in doing more than weekly drunk sex.
If this is indeed the case, next time you are alone with her tell her exactly how you feel, and ask her as directly as possibly whether or not she is interested in starting a relationship with you. If she says no, then she was a waste of your time in the first place. If she says yes, then you are set!
I have found that a key to success with relationships in college, and more generally, happiness, is to not engage in relationships where there are different expectations on different sides.
I basically wasted a year obsessing this girl who wasn't really looking for anything more than casual hook ups. I could have saved myself a lot of time and a lot of mental energy by breaking it off the second I realized that we had different visions for our relationship
Swaglord wrote:
She wants to be more than just a drunk thing. Next time you run into her on campus or something, say that you want to go out for dinner or that you want to grab a coffee and go for a walk in the park. See how the vibe is. If she's digging you in sober mode then tell her that you like her. If she reciprocates, then maybe do some stuff together in the future and then eventually she's gonna put out. Otherwise, if she's too wishy washy, you gotta take the hint and go for other girls but still say hi to this girl and stuff. Then lay some savage pipe on all the girls and this girl might hear about it and regret and then come back hard.
+1, kind of. You keep trying to smash at parties, which is where people hook up then never speak again. She's into you but she thinks you're just trying to hook up with her most likely, which is why she keeps texting you and accepting your invites to hangout but isn't down with the whole "lets bang in a random frat house", which honestly makes her a keeper. Change the party invite to a dinner invite, switch from beer to wine, and don't get totally shwasted.
fellow college kid wrote:
Okay so here is some advice from another college kid.
In my experience being direct and forward with girls about your intentions is the best way to go. It makes you look confident, and it is better for you in the long run because it will break off unfulfilling relationships before they start.
First of all, figure out what type of relationship you want to have with this girl. Your post reads like you are interested in doing more than weekly drunk sex.
If this is indeed the case, next time you are alone with her tell her exactly how you feel, and ask her as directly as possibly whether or not she is interested in starting a relationship with you. If she says no, then she was a waste of your time in the first place. If she says yes, then you are set!
I have found that a key to success with relationships in college, and more generally, happiness, is to not engage in relationships where there are different expectations on different sides.
I basically wasted a year obsessing this girl who wasn't really looking for anything more than casual hook ups. I could have saved myself a lot of time and a lot of mental energy by breaking it off the second I realized that we had different visions for our relationship
Very wise.
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