90% sure my fiancée is just marrying me for my money

Sounds like you're using each other. Be sure to sign a pre-bump.

It's a good investment if she's as hot and the sex is as good you say. Keep the sex going as long as possible tho cuz she's shitting you down as soon as kids come. Then she guaranteed monthly income til their 18.

Pre-nup by noon tomorrow or get out right now.

Just leave. Don't tell her. Move and never look back.

You won't be in charge once she gets the marriage certificate.

80s kid wrote:

Maybe I'm just poor wrote:

Huh???? Since when?

There are RNs and police officers who make more than that with overtime. It really depends on where in the country you live. You can't even buy a house with 150k salary in San Francisco, Manhattan, etc. Seriously, 150k sounds like a lot but there are guys who make so much more. Ever worked in a hospital? There are nurses who try to get with the single anesthesiologists (who make $600k+) all the time.

In San Francisco there are nurses who make more than that without overtime.

Good times are killing me wrote:

80s kid wrote:

There are RNs and police officers who make more than that with overtime. It really depends on where in the country you live. You can't even buy a house with 150k salary in San Francisco, Manhattan, etc. Seriously, 150k sounds like a lot but there are guys who make so much more. Ever worked in a hospital? There are nurses who try to get with the single anesthesiologists (who make $600k+) all the time.

In San Francisco there are nurses who make more than that without overtime.

Neither of you have any clue how much doctors and nurses make.

No matter how much money you make: If you have ANY doubts about marrying someone DO NOT get married. Take it from a young, experienced divorced guy. Forever is a long freaking time.

I dont think you guys understand how hot this girl is I mean we are literally having s** 2-3 times per day. Im not going to go as far as saying she is a 10 but she is definitely in 8-9 range.

I know she is just using me and probably cheating on me but im finding that the longer this goes on the less I care. I did get her to sign a rental agreement when she moved in with me so I have my bases covered there.

And for all the people saying 150k isnt that much believe me in north dakota 150k puts you in the top 1%.

Ill consider asking her about getting a pre nup in the next couple days and follow up with all of you then. Im pretty sure shell say no but atleast it will put the ball in her court and let her know that im onto her.

Thanks letsrun!

xzcxc wrote:

Option 1,

Withdraw lots of cash and keep it in some place away from home(e.g your parent's house or a storage unit). Make sure to keep this a complete secret. It would be sooooo bad if you get caught. But this way, maybe instead of going 50/50. You could get 70% of the money.

Option 2,

Get her pregnant asap and you'll have a family. She would be less likely to divorce. But it'd be soooooo bad if she did and now you gotta split a kid.

Depends on the marital property laws of the state you get married in. To oversimplify, states fall roughly into lenient and strict, the strict ones seeing marriage as making all your assets held as joint property. In the strict states, upon divorce, all your tricks will be overturned by the judge, with insult to injury. In lenient states, consult a lawyer and pile on those tricks.

Wait a minute.

Summary Update:

1) I know about extremely volatile female humans…like Tania TIGER.

2) I also know about extremely volatile female humans…like Tania TIGER kitten…or even Sicilian Italian female humans…etc…

3) Really scary and dangerous = Really fun at the same time

4) crazy in head = crazy in bed (or altitude tent).

5) WOW = WOW

6) etc. = etc.

Look at how Sir Mo says things that could be a Tania TIGER Triggerâ„¢:

Witnesses claim the tirade lasted up to ten minutes before the family boarded

A spokesman for Mo refused to comment. Delta did not comment.

Meanwhile, Mo and Tania will compete against each other in the Great North Run on Sunday, and he has said he aims to leave her for dust in the event.

The four-times Olympic champion laughed: “I’ll be so much in front of her I won’t even see her at the back. I’m aiming to win this race and we’re such different levels there’s no way she can keep up anywhere near me.”

He said: “I’ve been in the doghouse a few times. The trouble is I find running so easy I forget it’s not for everyone else. I’ve been a bit too hard on her.

On ITV’s This Morning this week Tania revealed how the fact that Mo has to sleep in an altitude tent every night interferes with their love life.

Oh my!!!

You are not thinking about this in the correct way.

There is a BIG problem with the term "prenup" term that everyone here throws around easily... like it is tennis ball or a cup of coffee.

There is an inverse correlation between "extremely volatile and explosive" women and how well they react to the term "prenup".

There is a very high probability that she will not react by jumping up and down and telling you how happy she is now.

There is a very high probability that she may not react well at all to the term "prenup"…and the other numbers you talked about will change into a new number:

= 0.000.

I think that you need to think about her high probability reaction to your poor choice of words to use in a sentence with her.

OK???

OP is Mo Farah. Anyways, dump this chick ASAP or use her for sex then dump her when you get tired. She deserves to be treated like shit cuz she treats you poorly. Over 50% of women cheat, but if you know she's cheating on you then get rid of that garbage. It looks bad on you. You can get a hotter chick if you believe in yourself. You seem pretty successful. But your personality kind of sucks. Good luck my friend.

confused 28 year old wrote:

I know she is just using me and probably cheating on me but im finding that the longer this goes on the less I care. I did get her to sign a rental agreement when she moved in with me so I have my bases covered there.

Yeah... You aren't thinking clearly at all.

Let me tell you how this is going to end....

You and her in a trailer in an absolutely miserable marriage. Your 150K job LONG gone and nothing like it anywhere and you didn't save a penny.

Or, you listen to good advice and don't marry her and live like a college student.

If you two can be honest about the extra-curricular sex, that's one thing. Most people cannot deal with that level of relationship complexity. You think you "have money." So, I doubt you can handle it.

......,... wrote:

Good times are killing me wrote:

In San Francisco there are nurses who make more than that without overtime.

Neither of you have any clue how much doctors and nurses make.

I'm a nurse so I have a better than average understanding of what a nurse would earn.

80s kid wrote:

Maybe I'm just poor wrote:

Huh???? Since when?

There are RNs and police officers who make more than that with overtime. It really depends on where in the country you live. You can't even buy a house with 150k salary in San Francisco, Manhattan, etc. Seriously, 150k sounds like a lot but there are guys who make so much more. Ever worked in a hospital? There are nurses who try to get with the single anesthesiologists (who make $600k+) all the time.

Yes.

You are exactly correct.

For example:

Hello Sir Mo.

Why are you going to train in Ethiopia now???

I have the perfect place for you when you come back to train in Flagstaff:

Wow. $1k per week on entertainment in N Dakota suggests you might literally be burning money. I don't know the market rate for adult services, but the most expensive escort in that state can't cost much more than what you're paying. OP you better be supplying your own condoms and handle them like an FBI agent handles evidence. Heck, if she gets pregnant by another guy and gets your name on a birth certificate, you could be screwed. For that reason, I also say you should dump her ASAP and save your money.

Confused 28 year old wrote:

It has become increasingly evident to me over the past year of us dating that she is just in this for my money. First she is extremely hot and I am a pretty average looking guy working as a petroleum engineer making 150k a year. I have spent over 50k on this girl in gifts and social events ect. We have a date planned for the wedding but I'm pretty sure she will pull the plug within 2-3 years to get half. Part of me wants to leave her but my sex life has never been this good and I will never have a chance at a girl like this again. What are your thoughts letsrun?

Why are you posting this here? Are you a runner? Is your fiancee's name Maggie?

I have only read the OP, so not sure yet what others have said, but I think the biggest part where you messed up was spending all that money on the girl to begin with. What the hell did you think was going to happen? That is an absurd amount of money to spend on any girl you are wanting to marry for love.

Some rules of dating if you're in it for love and marriage:

1) NEVER let the woman know how much money you make. She will likely have some idea after dating you awhile, but you should want this idea to be as vague as possible. No girl can marry you for money if she doesn't know you have money.

2) NEVER "spoil" a girl. Doing so will turn her rotten (spoiled and rotten are synonyms for crying out loud). Literally the moment you first "spoil" her a light will go off in her head where she will start of view you as a source of spoils, and other feelings and thoughts towards you will become secondary or non-existent. This is natural female human nature.

What should you do? Assuming this is a real post...

1) Yes, you WILL have opportunities to have an awesome sex life if you have money, which you do. Tons of money will always allow you to have an awesome sex life. Look at our insufferable disgusting president-elect!

2) If you want to know for sure if she's marrying you for money, tell her you plan on arranging a prenup stating your money is yours should you two get a divorce. Be very stringent about the finances and cover any loopholes. See how she reacts. Chances are she'll break it off. Better now that 5 years from now.

Congrats on the high dollar career.

confused 28 year old wrote:

I dont think you guys understand how hot this girl is I mean we are literally having s** 2-3 times per day.

"s** 2-3 times per day."

Yikes! 😨

Gasser wrote:

confused 28 year old wrote:

I dont think you guys understand how hot this girl is I mean we are literally having s** 2-3 times per day.

"s** 2-3 times per day."

Yikes! 😨

Ha! Yeah, that caught my attention, too. Who writes the word sex like that, and why would they? Is this guy actually a virgin?

Tell her you are quitting your job to pursue a public school teaching career. If she stays then it's all good.

Money leak wrote:

Wow. $1k per week on entertainment in N Dakota suggests you might literally be burning money.

If the claim is half-true, OP is burning money. OP thinks he "has money" with low six-figures, so, pretty small-minded, short-term thinking that will inevitably end badly.