For the record my wife and I had many mutual friends. And as we all know the local race scene even the national race scene is pretty small. And she was also interested in my roomate. But the banana in my pants worked for me especialyy when I pulled a banana out of my pocket and gave it to her. Being a boy scout I am always prepared. Oh the roomate she decided he was a jerk because he couldn't say anything to her besides "aaa i need to warm down first".