Really, seriously, honestly, Oldguy... I think some stranger at a race refering to his anatomy at all especially as a "banana" (or a "pole") would be plenty enough to make me very uncomfortable and send be warming up/cooling down in the OPPOSITE direction.
I'd be truly surprised if your wife hung around to talk to you after hearing something like that... considering you were a complete stranger to her and she'd have no way to know you not to be anything but a perv... am I wrong here?
I'm sure... uh maybe... that you're a nice guy in reality despite your apparent lack of good SKILL ;)