Covid did a number on a lot of people who were vulnerable to the challenges of being isolated. I had one crisis in my family and a tragedy that were mental health and drinking related during the first year of Covid. The tragedy was my brother literally drinking himself to death. Technically he died from a fall but he was a late stage alcoholic putting down vodka at a rate you wouldn’t believe. Covid isolation just accelerated everything. I have always been acutely aware of the health risks of drinking so had been a pretty moderate but daily 1-2 drinks habit for many years. Obviously that’s not healthy either if I’m not a heavy drinker. As part of my own recovery from grieving my brother’s loss I broke my daily drinking habit a few months ago. It was actually not difficult and the empowerment I feel along with better sleep, weight loss and feeling more mentally sharp all reinforce what a positive shift this is for me. At this stage I’m good with a few glasses of wine here and there versus stopping altogether. Will see how that goes long term, but my thoughts and well wishes go out to everyone struggling for happiness and balance in life. You can find it if you have the determination to keep working at it.
Covid did a number on a lot of people who were vulnerable to the challenges of being isolated. I had one crisis in my family and a tragedy that were mental health and drinking related during the first year of Covid. The tragedy was my brother literally drinking himself to death. Technically he died from a fall but he was a late stage alcoholic putting down vodka at a rate you wouldn’t believe. Covid isolation just accelerated everything. I have always been acutely aware of the health risks of drinking so had been a pretty moderate but daily 1-2 drinks habit for many years. Obviously that’s not healthy either if I’m not a heavy drinker. As part of my own recovery from grieving my brother’s loss I broke my daily drinking habit a few months ago. It was actually not difficult and the empowerment I feel along with better sleep, weight loss and feeling more mentally sharp all reinforce what a positive shift this is for me. At this stage I’m good with a few glasses of wine here and there versus stopping altogether. Will see how that goes long term, but my thoughts and well wishes go out to everyone struggling for happiness and balance in life. You can find it if you have the determination to keep working at it.
How did you just stop? I’m struggling from the habit of having 2 or more wines a day. At night I feel bad for not being able to stop at one or none and promise my that the next day I won’t drink. But then in the evening my brain says Hey go have that glass. And the cycle repeats its. So frustrating
"Trying" to quit is not a winning strategy. You must make a mental change from "trying' to "doing". Once you can say to yourself with conviction that you simply DO NOT DRINK anymore, then you have won. This is, of course, very simple but not so easy to do.
Covid did a number on a lot of people who were vulnerable to the challenges of being isolated. I had one crisis in my family and a tragedy that were mental health and drinking related during the first year of Covid. The tragedy was my brother literally drinking himself to death. Technically he died from a fall but he was a late stage alcoholic putting down vodka at a rate you wouldn’t believe. Covid isolation just accelerated everything. I have always been acutely aware of the health risks of drinking so had been a pretty moderate but daily 1-2 drinks habit for many years. Obviously that’s not healthy either if I’m not a heavy drinker. As part of my own recovery from grieving my brother’s loss I broke my daily drinking habit a few months ago. It was actually not difficult and the empowerment I feel along with better sleep, weight loss and feeling more mentally sharp all reinforce what a positive shift this is for me. At this stage I’m good with a few glasses of wine here and there versus stopping altogether. Will see how that goes long term, but my thoughts and well wishes go out to everyone struggling for happiness and balance in life. You can find it if you have the determination to keep working at it.
How did you just stop? I’m struggling from the habit of having 2 or more wines a day. At night I feel bad for not being able to stop at one or none and promise my that the next day I won’t drink. But then in the evening my brain says Hey go have that glass. And the cycle repeats its. So frustrating
I get it. I had similar regrets and feelings. For me it’s a couple things. Change my evening routine. Don’t put yourself in same situation and be occupied with something else. Go to bed early vs stay up and drink. Also I came down with GI illness in Jan so didn’t drink for a few days and I realized I actually slept better not drinking and could make it work.
How did you just stop? I’m struggling from the habit of having 2 or more wines a day. At night I feel bad for not being able to stop at one or none and promise my that the next day I won’t drink. But then in the evening my brain says Hey go have that glass. And the cycle repeats its. So frustrating
Don't have wine easily accessible. I drink if I have beer available. Pretty hard not to but rarely more than 1 or 2 at night. If I just don't have any around it becomes easy. Rather than 5 seconds to grab and open a beer, it takes 15 minutes or more to go somewhere and get a beer. After a few days, I'm just indifferent. Maybe have a beer every other week if I happen to be somewhere and I'm in the mood, but even then mostly I just don't bother.
I only drink probably ~7-10 times per year (probably twice in XC and than once in indoor/outdoor and occasionally in summer) as a college runner. probably drink a bit too much each time but it is what it is.
There's not much left except me and the drink at this stage
The cycle keeps repeating
Same here man. If I could drink 3-4 beers on Saturday instead of 6-8, I'd be way better off. Only drink 1x/week as a pressure relief valve (and to enjoy craft beer) but would be so much better off if I could keep it to 3-4 beers (a minor buzz) vs 6-8 (solidly drunk).
Really helpful thread, hope it provides an understanding that many of us are struggling the same. I absolutely love red wine on the weekends. I look forward to it all work week, almost as a reward. I drink 2 large goblets Fri, Sat and occasionally Sun nights. (Said goblets are filled with about 16oz) So Im drinking about 64 -96 oz a week. The drinking doesn’t seem to bother me physically other than waking me up at 3am. I’m starting to think I have a problem despite not drinking “heavily”.