So I'm new to cross country. I'm enjoying it, but this one guy is just always going on about how he "doesn't have the speed, but can just grind and grind" or how he "loves to sit right on a guy's ass and then, when the time is right, just hammer him." He talks about pounding, hammering, grinding it out, riding guy's asses, etc., on and on." Is this normal?? I don't want to have to quit the team.