Not a runner dork wrote:
Iowakidscanrun wrote:Been moving around the past 10 years implies he left home at age 17. This and the 50 girls......troll. 3/10
50 girls a lot? In 10 years? You guys are dorks, I've probably met over 100 girls from online (ok Cupid, tinder, match) in the past year. That's just two a week if you haven't found a steady girl. Pretty par for the course in a big city.
This. I joined tinder in March and have gone out with over 30 girls since then. Doesn't mean I've slept with that many, just that I've gone out with that many.
I am not in love. It's too early. I have been in love before and know what it's like.
I don't really expect people here to understand my way of thinking. Most people don't. I have a pretty unconventional lifestyle.
I'm well aware relationships are about compromise, and that is precisely why I'm hesitant. I don't want to compromise at this time in my life. I had made a clear and conscious decision to NOT get tied down with anything and go and live for a while... Then I met this girl, and it was like, "Crap. This wasn't supposed to happen!" If I met her 4 years from now I'd probably be thinking very differently, but it isn't 4 years from now; it's now.
I will try to take it easy and see where things go over the next month-ish. I will know better then of course, but I still thought I might receive some thoughtful input here.