Asked out a female coworker. She said yes. However...

Get a clue wrote:

Wut733 wrote:

Um. No to marriage. We made plans for a second date and eere texting after for a few days then sudden silence.

I thought we'd have a second date. No more no less. You have a crazy imagination dog.

The phone is for setting dates dude not wishy washy texting on the phone. You literally talked her straight out of liking you. You should have not contacted her at all after the date for a week before calling her and making a definite date at a definite time. It's a scientific fact women are more attracted to men's who feelings are unclear, for the first few weeks stick to no more than one date a week or your going to experience unnecessary pain.

Screw you.

I used to post as Hingle McCringleberry

8.5/10 one of the better troll threads of the year. The OP is laughing at all of you maroons. Notice that the OP hasn't provided updates.

Issues like a mag wrote:

Didn't intend to be mean. Just thought you took it to that level when you said " whatever, dude". You single?

The "mean" thing was tongue in cheek. And no, married for a few yrs now.

dreamin wrote:

Issues like a mag wrote:

Didn't intend to be mean. Just thought you took it to that level when you said " whatever, dude". You single?

The "mean" thing was tongue in cheek. And no, married for a few yrs now.

Got any cute single friends (must be faster than 7:00 for a mile)?

Weird. Dates are for getting to know people and deciding if you want to see them again, not committing to some contract that has to be observed.

Anyway, back to the main issue. When you asked her out and she said yes, what did you ask her out to? Otherwise its likely she thinks you played her and is now avoiding you out of embarrassment at being played. You asked her out, she said yes, expected you to get back to her with a date, place and time, and nothing.

What did you expect to happen? Did you suggest meeting up at all? Are you a child?

"Women are crazy, man"

This is the key to understanding women.

psycho before dating, , do you think she's going to change after you date?

If you think that you can get solid dating advice here, you are screwed.

dude the fact that you needed to tell the board you had a dying parent, shows you have bigger issues to resolve. You need to leave that behind, if you cant, then you can't be looking for no relationship. Forget her, or you will become a stalker, if she wants you, she will come looking for you. If she doesn't then is all good, there are ~150 million women in the US. Get in shape, look hot, and you will find plenty of other female companions. And yes, she could be playing games, women are empowered to be just as free and sexual as men always been.

dude the fact that you needed to tell the board you had a dying parent, shows you have bigger issues to resolve. You need to leave that behind, if you cant, then you can't be looking for no relationship. Forget her, or you will become a stalker, if she wants you, she will come looking for you. If she doesn't then is all good, there are ~150 million women in the US. Get in shape, look hot, and you will find plenty of other female companions. And yes, she could be playing games, women are empowered to be just as free and sexual as men always been.

Another coworker advised me she had been out of work for the past week.

Oooops.

Thank you all.

NO this was not a hoax.

Sorry.

I hope she's okay.

Keep us posted.

well it's a good thing this girl is a rotund frogfaced co-worker and not an attractive roommate because if she were an attractive roommate this thread will never had stayed up and you never would have gotten all this good advice.

Ever heard the advice, "Dont sh*t where you eat"?

Don't do it. Forget her. Move on. She is not interested. If you are having this much trouble with it, what happens when you do go out and she dumps you. How awkward will that be. Doesn't sound like you could handle it given this confusion, and it is not good for the work place. Find a life outside of work, you'll be happier. All of your conversations will not be about work, those you work with, or the industry your in. You'll be better off in the long run. Plenty of fish outside of your little pond.

Aarrrrgggghhhhh wrote:

Another coworker advised me she had been out of work for the past week.

Oooops.

Thank you all.

NO this was not a hoax.

Sorry.

3/10 Is that the best you can do?

Still in the game! Good call on asking around before overreacting.

I had to learn the hard way not to date co-workers, but that doesn't mean it can't or won't work out for you. Life's too short not to go for what you want.

Keep us posted, and set a time and place for that date!