At what age did you start actively looking for a wife?

For Crying Out Loud wrote:

Ukelele guy:

Wrong. Genetic, physical gifts are essential. Unless you want ugly kids.

I am guessing you have ugly kids.

We were unable to conceive, so we adopted two wonderful gorgeous kids. Any other foot-in-mouth comments?

Never thought wrote:

In my early 20s I thought I'd never get married or have kids. In my mid 20s and changed my mind and thought I would, but I really just wanted to fool around. In my late 20s now, I find myself thinking "Would she make a good wife?" almost every time I go out with a girl. It's not like I'm looking to get married soon, but I do find myself thinking beyond just a PoA like I used to. I've even found myself pursuing fairly homely girls just because I think they'd make a great "life partner" even though they're not really that hot.

At what age did you start actively looking for a wife?

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Never thought wrote:

In my early 20s I thought I'd never get married or have kids. In my mid 20s and changed my mind and thought I would, but I really just wanted to fool around. In my late 20s now, I find myself thinking "Would she make a good wife?" almost every time I go out with a girl. It's not like I'm looking to get married soon, but I do find myself thinking beyond just a PoA like I used to. I've even found myself pursuing fairly homely girls just because I think they'd make a great "life partner" even though they're not really that hot.

At what age did you start actively looking for a wife?

Are you married yet?

It has been 6 years from your first post.

Wife chose me. Helps to be a bit alpha.

Mid to late 20s

That’s when most people start professional careers and begin to have children. The exception is the party crowd.

Here’s the thing make sure you don’t rush into the marriage. Ask a lot of questions and spend a lot of time together first. Also find out if she wants children. If one does and other doesn’t that’s gonna be a big issue.

Never thought wrote:

At what age did you start actively looking for a wife?

I think I was 12 when the housewife across the street came outside in her bikini. So that was when I started looking.

If a woman says she's looking for a husband, run. Why do most women only think about what they want and not what a man wants? They over value themselves all the time. A singke woman who has a kid, is not in good shape and doesn't have a really beautiful face and body a very low value woman. Yet these woman say they want a high value man. They are delusional and ignorant.

STEVE THE ADDICT^^^^^^"""""""" wrote:

If a woman says she's looking for a husband, run. Why do most women only think about what they want and not what a man wants? They over value themselves all the time. A singke woman who has a kid, is not in good shape and doesn't have a really beautiful face and body a very low value woman. Yet these woman say they want a high value man. They are delusional and ignorant.

?? Are you trolling or do you really think in those terms?......a very low value woman??...........most women only think what they want??

You sound like quite the catch for some lucky woman!

a door open wrote:

STEVE THE ADDICT^^^^^^"""""""" wrote:

If a woman says she's looking for a husband, run. Why do most women only think about what they want and not what a man wants? They over value themselves all the time. A singke woman who has a kid, is not in good shape and doesn't have a really beautiful face and body a very low value woman. Yet these woman say they want a high value man. They are delusional and ignorant.

?? Are you trolling or do you really think in those terms?......a very low value woman??...........most women only think what they want??

You sound like quite the catch for some lucky woman!

This man says the exact same thing i just said and he is well respected by competent women and men because him and myself are exactly right. You sound like a liberal who can't handle the truth so they just try to smear, mislabel the logical and intelligent person who put forth a truthful and logical argument. Look. Do better.

STEVE THE ADDICT^^^^^^"""""""" wrote:

a door open wrote:

?? Are you trolling or do you really think in those terms?......a very low value woman??...........most women only think what they want??

You sound like quite the catch for some lucky woman!

This man says the exact same thing i just said and he is well respected by competent women and men because him and myself are exactly right. You sound like a liberal who can't handle the truth so they just try to smear, mislabel the logical and intelligent person who put forth a truthful and logical argument. Look. Do better.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VI6XWGKvUrE

I listened to about three minutes of that boring seemingly unrelated to our discussion video.

Do I need to explain whats wrong with your comments. Objects can have low value, people are not described as having low or high value. People are not commodities. Also, you have a real negative perception of women. Most woman don't only think of themselves and don't over value themselves all the time.

Obviously you have been hurt by women. Change your attitude, see the goodness in people and maybe that special girl, who is right for you, will come along.

Good luck.

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Zev wrote:

I've accepted I'll die alone which I'd rather do than settling for someone.

Still, I feel like I'm missing out.

If your spouse dies first, you will die alone.

Is the objective of a successful marriage to die first so you won’t die alone?

Swore to never get married after my folks had a vicious divorce while I was in HS. Avoided dating except in occasional mixed company for years after. At age 32 I met someone that I liked enough to hang out with. We're still hanging out, but as a married couple and it doesn't look like that will ever change. Our kids are deeply appreciative of our solidarity as a couple so I guess my change of heart was wise after all.

Never looked for a wife. They just all came calling.

Repelled woman after woman who wanted Flagpole, and I accepted the best one.

smart if you start pre-25 because the best women usually go then.

I never thought about it until mid-20s.

Let's be real, your career and social standing virtually 100% induces the woman you match with.

looka wrote:

Let's be real, your career and social standing virtually 100% induces the woman you match with.

This is really wrong. Water seeks it's own level and that could mean any combination of qualities with people as long as on the whole it was relatively equal.

You have to believe you are a good catch in a sort of honest way, don't have an attachment disorder or some other serious problem dominating your personality that means quality people have to make excuses for you too much, because they won't.

JosePublico wrote:

This is really wrong. Water seeks it's own level and that could mean any combination of qualities with people as long as on the whole it was relatively equal.

You have to believe you are a good catch in a sort of honest way, don't have an attachment disorder or some other serious problem dominating your personality that means quality people have to make excuses for you too much, because they won't.

Outside of rare cases like very attractive or disordered, this applies.