I completely agree. I don't think that the people who are attacking Happily Married and the like are religious zealots neccesarily. People are human and they make mistakes. It may not always be the best thing to tell the other spouse and ask for their forgiveness, because again, people are human and find it hard to forgive. Why break up a family? The spouse that can't forgive is no more guilty than the person who cheated in the first place. But defending a constant practice of deciving the one person that you profess to love and made vows to as acceptable is just unbelieveable and plain wrong. Happily Married is living in a state of denial - he's lying to himself. You can tell that by the way that he had to constantly defend himself and proclaim to be an infailiable human being in every other aspect of his life, and eventually retreat back to the scumosphere from whence he came. People that behave like this and defend the practice as acceptable have no moral compass whatever Higher Power (or not) you might believe in.