Need some advice wrote:
Recently, however, he called me into his office and basically told me that he is in love with me. I don't know what to do because on one hand, I think he's a great guy, love working with him, and don't want to leave my job, but on the other hand, I feel uncomfortable and don't want to put my career in jeopardy.
What should I do? Leave my job? Move to another part of the company? Talk to him about it? The last thing I want to do is screw up his marriage or my career/professional reputation.
Help!
Your boss has put you in a terrible position and you should tell HR. Maybe you see this as betraying whatever friendship you believe you've built up with him, but if he actually cared about you he wouldn't have put this over your head to begin with. He's just a horny guy in a failing marriage and he has created a power dynamic with you, his employee, that is completely unprofessional and could probably be considered a hostile work environment. He deserves to lose his job for this.