I'm 38, so I'm in the middle here. I look like I'm still in my late twenties. I can pick up chicks in their twenties, and they don't know how old I really am. But I don't like them anymore. Their reference points are different from mine. They've never seen Pulp Fiction or listened to Pearl Jam. So, I date in my age range.
I am way smarter now than I was in my twenties. I know better now. I realize that highly successful people are where they are mostly because of luck. Moderately successful people are where they are because of work. Losers are where they are because of laziness and bad habits.
I never married, and I thought I would regret it until all my friends started to get divorced.
Most things people ascribe to old age is really a product of being out of shape. I've met a lot of fit 50-year-olds, and they do quite well.
I think winning your age group is a great achievement, and something we all should aspire to. I can't relate to people who ran at a high level when they were young only to give it up when they "retired." I see running as a lifelong thing like Bill Rodgers does.
The other thing about getting older is that I am way cooler now. I am secure in who I am, and I have learned the value of self-deprecation. Younger people seem all hung up on what other people think about them, and I could give a damn what other people think about me. I see younger people as massively insecure, and I laugh at them. I would never want to go back to that, so getting older has its benefits. Plus, it is really cool when you bang some 21-year-old's girlfriend.
There is a key difference between me and guys my age. I consciously made the decision to not go the family route, and I am glad I did. To a man, they all envy me. Most middle aged bitterness comes from men slaving to support ungrateful children and a b*tchy wife. Everyone of them tells me to stay single, and I do. Plus, I can't stand any of their kids. Bunch of brats.
My advice to the younger guys is pretty simple. Learn to like yourself and not worry about what others think. Never get married. Keep running. So far, so good.
Out.