yetanotherchick wrote:
I've never tried it, but from what people say about it, it seems unbelievably pathetic. You can do all the things that you don't have the courage to do in real life, like interact with 13 year olds.
(Right before I posted, I realized that sounds perverted. I didn't mean it that way, but seriously, I don't know anyone with an otherwise active and fulfilling life that enjoys this. What's appealing about hanging out online pretending to be someone you could have been in real life if you'd worked hard, and talking to lonely teenagers?)
Well, on one hand, you're right. I would imagine most people who play around on Second Life for entertainment purposes are people who are too timid, ugly, untalented, lazy, etc to make their real life as exciting as their Second Life alter-ego.
However, I think there is something appealing about the opportunity to try out a different persona in cyberspace, even for those who are successful and happy in real life. For instance, I might be quite happy with my real job, but I'm curious to know what it would be like to take on an entirely different persona just for fun and pretend to be a rockstar, without quitting my real job and sacraficing my career, family, etc. At any rate, I think you're being too judgemental. It's just a game and I think there are probably plenty of normal, healthy people out there who play it. It depends on how far one takes it. But even then, who are we to judge? If someone prefers virtual existence to "reality", fine for them. The world is becoming more and more virtual with each passing year. In a few decades, virtual reality could be the new reality.